with clandyone.


you RAAAAWK!

i got ya-- just didn't say so

still think lydia's brother's head should be on a spike -regardless of how she feels - justice has it's own timetable.

nevermind...

and follow therules dammit! :) as for people in jail ..the vast majority of them are just like you NON VIOLENT DRUG OFFENDERS. try again. how do we discuss power imbalances and gender -- what differs in HOW we discuss each... that's what I'm interested in if you don't like the thread- it's just like...

for those innocents of course, right...right?

easy answer.
I give it a 2, and you can't dance to it.

NEXT!

let's drop women out of the equation for a good long while and stick with prison rape touching on these subjects: -young/beautiful men and how they are treated - power - abuse of proceeedure for punishment - ie guards puttingyou in with a known rapist and looking the other way - personal resposibili...

straight boys with gay boys with gay girls with straight girls...yum!

for most people it seems these lines are in fucks er... flux

Did anything at burningman change you or your way of thinking permanently? Did anything open up for you?

grady and paul at the Kecak Monkey Chant! singing so joyfully with so many bright shining souls the contact improvdancers at center camp - understandinghtierjoy in expressive physicality in a dance language... the folks that came back to abstininthe on purpose -even though we didn't list - serving d...

good going stanboy!

when you have time tell us more about the shifts you're going through --what doyou want more of and less of in your life?

Where do you live - hooking upwith a regional is agood way to keep it juicy all year...

should have said I-WE-BMORG-MEN-WOMEN in previous post....

thanks diggum for follow up---

im confused -was it you who did thetrainings-- whomever is there any stuff you could post here from the workshops thatwould be helpful?

is it available online?

for many a sex postitve space is not what they come to the playa for.... spaces for all kinds of experiences... yeah - shame about the firearms...well not really-- too many people freakin on one substance or another to make me comforatable with supporting responsib;le gun owner ship on the playa.......

but it moves in the right direction-- and the ones we have hope of helping out are the ones that have trouble with 'ambiguities' "boundaries' 'negotiations' an empowered sex positive play space -- where ambiguities are safely and mutually joyflly expolored is the aim..... I am not really talking abo...

I never said you were a prick! And I appreciate the work you've done! Sounds great ! I hear your frustration and we agree women can and should be more empowered to establish their own boundaries by talking or force when nessesary. So we agree... OK your right about the camp idea -- allthough the EAr...

you caught me -- im not totally focused on teh details of sunsets story -- more the dynamics at the event which are getting more and more fucked up..... What I meant by the Eddie bauer comment is -- It will devolve into just another place where women don't feel safe and don't want to go... Those NOT...

I pretty much agree...
NOW

What about him and all the other guys that either don't get it -- or willfully push without concern for the human being they are trying to fuck?


What about empowering the guys to help change the dynamics at BM -- which ARE getting sleazier.

C'mon folks think deeper.

ok werestill talking about her she's still on the witness stand your still checking the legnth of her skirt might as well be in Salem As I said we get raped by people we TRUST. Grandmas get raped by nursing home attendants, retarded women too! THE PROBLEM IS NOT US. People who send all the right sig...

I know I suck because I didn't see it...but can you list more of the quests?Again - gorgeous idea. NExt year come see me at Abstininthe!

and maybe it's not easy for her to be grilled here eh? the 'feedback' you're giving is harsh and of the 'blame-the-victim flavor. The feedbac'k she may need is not the kind that calls her names "mousy" and 'ballless' (talk about a blindspot!) Have you guys taken the time out to look a long and criti...

I wish I'd seen it-can you desribe it more fully?

I'm a realist. I've been self employed for 10 years -- got a little burnt wnet for a 'secure' job -- worked like a dog for the man -- then got laid off three weeks before the burn. Security is bunk. We are devolving jobs at an alarming rate for export or robots... Maybe that's a good thing. Burningm...

BM is not isolated - it reflects social relations outside of burningman -- this is not a defense I prefrer much more diverse environments to monolithic ones-- Expand your social structures at home, bring new friends each year. The people of color I know that have come have become an integral part of...

damn..the bullshit gets thicker each year. guess I'll have to bring a tazer or something next time. yeah I don't beleive that post with the 'taut barely legal ' business was a woman either. one of the reasons burningman is so great- so freeing - so different -- is because women feel freer there, som...