i'm guessing permenant residence on the playa is not an option :P

i wonder if gerlach has any homesteads? ha

ya know, her sister is actually moving to Vegas in august i think.. maybe she can go visit her for a week while i'm gone. That way shes out doing something that she wants to do too.

Thanks for the wisdom c.f.m. I will include her in the planning.. and talk "to" her, not at her.

you're right c.f.m. there are bigger issues i'm sure. I just think we would both benefit from some breathing room though, ya know? i go experience BM, she stays and does whatever makes her happy. then we reconvene in a week refreshed and ready to continue life together.

well, jellyfish, i think maybe i'm misrepresenting her a bit here. She really is a very good person, very kind and warmhearted.. and we do mesh extremely well.. maybe i make things a little harder than they should be by too much into what she says/does sometimes... i think i just need to "do" and no...

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Thanks for the reply! yes, its a year away, but i will need to start making plans very soon to make it work, which means i need to know if i'm making them with her involved or not :? She originally said "you go with your friends", which in real life means "i will not be happy if you go without me". ...

Ok, Im trying to get to BM in 2010 as a virgin. I want to go with my brother and brother-in-law and some friends and have a life altering experience. One problem.. my girlfriend, though i love her very much, is not cut out for the Playa in any way, shape, or form. She would get along with the other ...

Ok, so i am officially infected, inspired, obsessed with BM and getting there for 2010. I am picking up a part time job specifically to save up for the Playa. I already have my brother, brother-in-law, best friend and 3 others on board. We're virgins, and holy mother of goonies theres a lot of info ...