allow me to introduce myself - Cathy, 41, single... this will be my first BM though have been hearing about it for years and have wanted to go but job prevented me in the past. Currently I'm going through some sort of life transition... spent years in the tech industry and got burnt out, then spent ...

I am new to all of this, having decided to go at the last minute. Don't worry, I will arrive prepared!

I've heard of something called "solo collective" - how will I find it once I arrive?

Thanks!