The Red handkerchief is ALSO popular amoung women into vaginal fisting. But other than that Ron you hit the nail on the head.Ron wrote:Red handkerchiefs being a single among the gay male crowd to show who is into anal fisting, for those who don't know.)
Another thing to consider is the RULES BM actually requires these days. Sex used to be a LOT more open on the playa(2000 and before) you could literally do it anywhere. But now they have all these fucking rules and cops and all that. A lot of more closed camps are just protectnig themselves from legal prosecution.
As a woman often looking to get laid on the playa, I don't always find the 'sex camp' and most of the time am not looking for that. The male to female ratio is such that I have ample selection of partners and perhaps the problem of me getting laid or not is better answered by why I am not meeting these interested parties? You probably have you best chances exploring this question.
And if I'm not neccisarily looking for a 'sex camp' , but am the kinky sort of woman that does and can enjoy that sort of venue how will you find me on the playa? Will you advertize pre-playa? Will you attempt to attract me with classes and workshops that lead to play parties in evenings (this is how alot of sex camps on the playa do it)? Or will you wait for me to randomly show up, dissapointed that all you are getting is the guys who 'herd they could get laid here'.
Oh and I'm guessing a bit on this one but about one third of the women on the playa are actually lesbians and dykes and not even part of whatever equation you got going.