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are boobies a must?

Post by pintobean123 » Tue Apr 20, 2004 7:58 pm

There was a thread posted not too long ago about almost the same subject. However, I have a more specific question:

Are boobies a must?

I am an extremely shy person, will I ever feel uncomfortable for not letting the kids see the candy? :oops:

I know Burning Man is all about liberation, freedom, and self truth, but goddam it, my boobies are MY BOOBIES..



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Post by Ivy » Tue Apr 20, 2004 8:10 pm

Have you read any of the information on the website?

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Post by Captain Goddammit » Tue Apr 20, 2004 8:20 pm

A lot of people think that way their first time. Many loosen up after being there. After a while you realize that no one will even much notice or give a second glance at your very own boobies, 'cause everyone (of the female persuasion) has 'em too, and we've all seen them.
Some don't loosen up for a year or two, some never do.
But the sight of bare breasts at Burning Man is about as commonplace as a bikini at a beach. Yours might almost disappoint you with the lack of commotion they create.
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Post by jenny » Tue Apr 20, 2004 9:37 pm

I wouldn't worry. There are plenty of clothed and naked people. You can do either - and sometimes naked people are chastised to be clothed (what's that I heard about a pants cannon?) and clothed people urged to liberate and run free, but it's ultimately up to you. What ever makes you feel the best is really what we all want, right?

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Post by unjonharley » Tue Apr 20, 2004 10:03 pm

At my age I have as much boobies as a lot of ladys. I go top less<so there> There called bitch tits on men. Sides i'm not that important that some one is going to spend time lookng at me.
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Post by Silver » Wed Apr 21, 2004 4:45 am

Cover 'em up, let 'em out, strap 'em down; unless you are built really weird no one will notice one way or the other. Joking aside, I would say that of the women I know that go to Burning Man a good 35 to 40% have never run around topless and this is fairly laid back crowd. No body will say anything if you keep covered up and the girls that sunburn thier boobs will wish that they had. Off hand I can remember only one direct comment about breasts at BRC, one of my camp mates (female) once woke me up to get my opinion, "Are those real?" -- skinny chick huge hooters -- my response, "Uh, yeah, watch when she lays down, they'll slide to the side and fake ones just sit there like hunks of styrofoam; can I go back to sleep now?".
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Post by III » Wed Apr 21, 2004 8:57 am

>>Cover 'em up, let 'em out, strap 'em down

just don't take em off and leave em behind. the only thing about boobies that's a must is taking them home again aafter the event, just like everything else.
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Post by unjonharley » Wed Apr 21, 2004 9:00 am

Boobie moop ?????
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Post by III » Wed Apr 21, 2004 9:03 am

or just boop, i think. no better than any of the rest of it.
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Post by Otisserie » Wed Apr 21, 2004 10:30 am

On any given day at BM about 75-80% of women there have their tops on. Higher at night. You and your covered boobies will be in the vast majority.

Except for the requirement to have sex with gate staff and greeters upon your arrival at BM, no one really expects you to be exposing yourself.

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Post by blyslv » Wed Apr 21, 2004 1:32 pm

SPF 45. At a minimum. Or just keep 'em covered, don't mean a thing.
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Post by PurpleKoosh » Wed Apr 21, 2004 2:20 pm

Otisserie wrote:On any given day at BM about 75-80% of women there have their tops on. Higher at night.
*snort* I'm so damnably pale, after dark is the only time I will go topless....
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Post by actiongrl » Wed Apr 21, 2004 3:20 pm

I have to say that in my estimation only about 7-10% of people go completely nude, and about maybe 20-25% of women go topless *at some point* during the week (including Critical Tits.) It's not as common as you might think. Furthermore, at NO point have I heard of anyone hollering "Show us your tits!" and meaning it. Maybe at a guy doing a striptease on a mobile bar car or something....it's not the sort of place where anyone would have any reason to be compelling you to show your breasts, and I doubt you'll think about it even once, unless it's to cast off your usual expectation and just try something new.

The first time I went totally naked at the event was 98, while working at Media Mecca. It freaked me out completely for about ten minutes, and then suddenly I was free of it. I have had a much more beneficial relationship with my body since doing that. I stopped last year, but I think that's because of the nagging fear I had that I'd run into my stepfather, who was attending the event for the first time, and we'd both freak our shit.

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Post by unjonharley » Wed Apr 21, 2004 6:33 pm

AJ wrote:
I stopped last year, but I think that's because of the nagging fear I had that I'd run into my stepfather, who was attending the event for the first time, and we'd both freak our shit.[/quote]
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I run across a lady I had known for along time at an old hippy fair. We stoped to talk. She wasn't wearing a top. She could do that proudly. As we spoke I noticed some thing odd about her skirt. It had extra materal in the front. She was there for her brothers wedding. Suddenly she said "Oh my god" and grabed the front of the skirt. Fliped it up and tied it. Bip! a top appeared.
She told me her mother had come into view. That her Dad would be ok but Mom would have kittens
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Post by shitmouse » Wed Apr 21, 2004 11:19 pm

people are cool about it...

my little wifey isn't a nudist or anything, but 2 years ago she went for naked rides with me in the warm evening when everyone was enjoying the sunset, and had a nice, mellow experience. i'm not naked guy, but she just wanted to do it, and she had fun.

Last year she didn't feel the want or need to. it was just something she wanted to experience and the people at BM gave her a neutral and appreciative response.

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Post by Das Bus » Thu Apr 22, 2004 3:50 am

The post about SPF 45 is right on! Last year I burned my boobs really bad. On the up side, I had lots guys who kindly rubbed my red boobs with lotion.
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Post by Dr. Pyro » Thu Apr 22, 2004 12:01 pm

And Lora, you know we appreciated it.

Now, back to pintobean123. I suspect the concern you have is more psychological than anything else. Go topless or not, it truly makes no difference whatsoever. But my suggestion is to stop by Barbie Death Camp & Wine Bistro, take off your top, and let me give you my official evaluation. I am an excellent judge on this sort of problem. I am, after all, a doctor.

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Post by SilkenTofu » Thu Apr 22, 2004 1:50 pm

My first year (2001) I was overwhelmed at the casual nudity of both men and women and I was adamant that I would NOT be naked by the end of the festival. This was over by the third day when a passing water truck cruised by with 30 or so nude folks rinsing off. I shucked my sarong and joined the masses.

It is all about what you feel comfortable with, no one will judge you, unless you are in a contest or a strip-a-thon.
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Post by _tears_ » Thu Apr 22, 2004 6:03 pm

You do whatever makes YOU comfortable. Also dont be close minded about the fact that when you are out there on the playa, that you MAY possibely want to take your shirt off. Its not uncommon for people who are not nudists and have never been around it to feel libarated ( or so darn hot ) they just want to take it off. Do my advice.. JUST DONT BE CLOSE MINDED.
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Post by Isotopia » Thu Apr 22, 2004 6:07 pm

Dear Pintobean,

As you can tell from my own beautiful, glamorous photo boobs are a must.

Hope this helps.

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Disrobing to get cool:

Post by Ranger Genius » Fri Apr 23, 2004 11:43 am

Pinto:

It's odd to me that there is so much nudity at Burningman, and yet there is absolutely no pressure for anyone to join in. But people do--and many who are not even nudists. Some do it to expand their own comfort zones, some just because it sounds fun, some because they crave the attention, or any number of other reasons. You may find once you get out there that you want to disrobe, perhaps even briefly, and many people do, I think largely because they can. That's one of the best aspects of playa living--we get to explore which of our inhibitions are our own, and which spawn from the social moors that we have always taken for granted.

But I must offer this advice, as a year round Desert-Dweller: Getting undressed in order to cool off DOESN'T WORK. The hot sun striking your skin will drive you closer to heat stroke. If you're having serious trouble dealing with the heat, COVER UP, Especially your head and neck (Hence the popularity of straw or light material hats with 360 degree brims). Wear loose, flowing, natural fabrics. Think about what people in egypt and other very hot, desert countries wear. It's not out of modesty, it's practical (the modesty came later...another one of those social moors, no pun intended). Now, if you get undressed and get wet (water truck, what have you) the evaporation can cool you quickly; but don't think of nudity as a way of keeping cool. I don't want to see you in the medical tent.
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Re: Disrobing to get cool:

Post by theCryptofishist » Fri Apr 23, 2004 12:30 pm

Ranger Genius wrote: That's one of the best aspects of playa living--we get to explore which of our inhibitions are our own, and which spawn from the social moors that we have always taken for granted.
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Post by III » Fri Apr 23, 2004 10:06 pm

>>we get to explore which of our inhibitions are our own, and which spawn from the social moires that we have always taken for granted

well, there are other boundaries there as well. explore yourself long enough, and you'll get someone telling you you can't do that anymore...
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Post by Last Real Burner » Fri Apr 23, 2004 10:16 pm

The first thing I do when I hit the playa is strip all my clothes off and run out to the man. The fucking car doesn't even get to stop completely before I'm out disrobing. And I'm not a nudist and normally don't like people seeing me in the all together. It's just something about the freedom I feel when I hit the playa. Knowing that no matter what I won't be judged as crazy or what ever. Oh and I grab a beer. I basically don't put clothes on again until I'm at the Gate leaving.


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Post by pintobean123 » Sat Apr 24, 2004 6:58 pm

After asking this question, i had to ask myself. Why the fuck do i even care? Men and women are = @ the man. I wonder where in my life i decided that boobs are something to be ashamed of. Thanks for the advice guys, I guess the ultimate conclusion is that the only way to fully experience burning man is to experience burning man. whatever that may entail, just go with it. (Or go without it???)

I'm so excited!! :D

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Post by Jordan 10-E » Mon Apr 26, 2004 11:27 am

III wrote:>>Cover 'em up, let 'em out, strap 'em down

just don't take em off and leave em behind. the only thing about boobies that's a must is taking them home again aafter the event, just like everything else.
I had that problem with my detachable penis... I lost it somewhere.
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absolutely

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Post by blyslv » Tue Apr 27, 2004 10:04 am

Going topless is one thing, if you are going to go pantless, AND if you are going to sit in people's laps, please pay particular attention to your own personal hygiene.

that is all.
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Post by Jordan 10-E » Tue Apr 27, 2004 12:28 pm

blyslv wrote:Going topless is one thing, if you are going to go pantless, AND if you are going to sit in people's laps, please pay particular attention to your own personal hygiene.

that is all.
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Post by PantzookaHQ » Tue Apr 27, 2004 1:39 pm

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