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Post by mamasaid » Fri Jun 11, 2004 8:18 pm

:lol:
I've seen some frolicking and fondling at center camp, but was wondering how far people have gone in the past, would someone kick you out if, say you decided to give some oral to someone at center camp? I suppose there are places where this is more appropriate, with kids being around and all.
What are others experiences?

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Post by Captain Goddammit » Fri Jun 11, 2004 8:22 pm

During daytime it would be tough, but way late at night things get quiet...
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Post by Apollonaris Zeus » Fri Jun 11, 2004 11:40 pm

Sex at center camp!

Where did you come up with that Idea?




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Post by SilkenTofu » Mon Jun 14, 2004 7:42 am

care for cream in your coffee???
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Post by Badger » Mon Jun 14, 2004 10:26 am

Sex is good.

Sex in Center Camp is not always a good idea. Fuck any sex negative stereotypes you might have but consider that not everyone is enamored at the possibility of going into a very public place and find people having sex. Not everyone's crazy at the idea of taking a skanky, cum smeared sofa where one or more have been going at it and still others - especially parents - aren't crazy about the possibility of going into a public place where with their kids and having the possibility of LEOs in at the same time. The spectre of being given a hard tiome by LEO for bringing a child into an area where open, public sex may be taking place has been brought up by several parents that I know personally. I'm not aware of anything like this actually happening but given the current puritanism of the Asscroft Sex Crimes Unit ramping up in time for election time I wouldn't be surprised if more scrutiny were focused on such acts by our federal LEO personnel who are at the event along side of us.

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Post by actiongrl » Tue Jun 29, 2004 12:37 pm

Nevada law is clear that sex in public is a punishable offense.

Not everyone wants to see other people having sex. Please do yourself and everyone else a favor and keep it to locations that are designed for such affairs.

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Post by stuart » Tue Jun 29, 2004 12:41 pm

Nevada law is clear that sex in public is a punishable offense.
enforcement usually only entails acts between two men though.

still, I don't want to walk in on you giving head to someone. Find a dome.

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Post by AntiM » Tue Jun 29, 2004 4:18 pm

I wonder what the couple engaged in sex would do if you just sat on the couch next to the fucking/sucking pair and struck up a conversation with them as if they were just hanging out too. Just start chatting away about the weather, or the coffee, or the art, and see if their physical intercourse collapses under your social intercourse. Don't go away under any circumstances, just keep up the chit-chat. Or is that not as funny as it seems it could be?

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Post by _tears_ » Tue Jun 29, 2004 4:25 pm

AntiM~

I find that VERY funny.
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Post by DVD Burner » Tue Jun 29, 2004 4:29 pm

AntiM wrote:I wonder what the couple engaged in sex would do if you just sat on the couch next to the fucking/sucking pair and struck up a conversation with them as if they were just hanging out too. Just start chatting away about the weather, or the coffee, or the art, and see if their physical intercourse collapses under your social intercourse. Don't go away under any circumstances, just keep up the chit-chat. Or is that not as funny as it seems it could be?
It would be very exciting and gratifying.
Have you ever tried it before? :P
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Post by BAS » Tue Jun 29, 2004 5:42 pm

Hey, that sounds like something I might do! Sounds like a great idea! :lol: (Then again, the stuff I think would be fun to do and a great idea don't always survive the reality test.... :? )
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Post by KellY » Tue Jun 29, 2004 5:54 pm

I've seen some, heard about more. Seems like less every year now that we're a family show. Bleah.

Funny thing about watching people have sex in real life -it doesn't look anything like porn. When they shoot porn they make sure everyone's in those weird angles and get the cameras in the places they need to be to show all the plumbing. In real life you just see bodies moving together - much more R-rated than X. The facial expressions are usually better, though.

I did actually see this couple having sex while the guy was engaged in conversation with someone else. At first I thought that the woman was just sitting on the guy's lap, but after looking away then looking back I realized the way she was moving most likely meant only one thing...it doesn't say much for their sexual chemistry that the guy was able to do that, I figure.
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Post by boy of blue » Tue Jun 29, 2004 10:43 pm

now i know what i sat in last year

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Post by AntiM » Wed Jun 30, 2004 5:33 am

Actually, one of my Nay buddies on Diego Garcia had a roommate (also a good friend of mine) who brought home young ladies for sex at inopportune times, such as when first buddy needed to sleep. No privacy in those barracks rooms, although you could try by arranging the furniture. Anyway, if the roomie was having sex and keeping the other guy awake, he'd go over, sit on the bed, and engage the girl in conversation. Sometimes this worked, other times he'd come and crash on my floor. My roomie was annoyed as he snored, but she never said a word. She was gay and this was before the days of don't ask don't tell and we both could have been in deep trouble if we had sniped and grumbled. At least she and I were on different shifts so I only had to "sleep" through a silent sex episode once. I paid her back for that when I met my Larry, we were hardly the silent types. She and I managed to get me swapped with her partner to another room, nearly impossible room swaps, everyone was happy, especially her partner who hated her roommate. Even the Chain of Commmand was happy, they could pretend we were all good little sailors, celibate and clean.

It is much funnier when my friend told it, he did both parts of the conversations and mimicked the bouncing of the bed and the roomie's "go away" hisses.

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Post by Ron » Wed Jun 30, 2004 9:21 am

Last year I walked into a dome, not in center camp, and saw two camp mates locked up in a tight and sweaty 69. Being a swinger, and having worked in the adult business for year, seeing naked folk having sex doesn't make that much of an impression on me, anymore. So I walked into the dome, it was a public space after all, and got myself a drink.

From underneath he noticed me, turned his head, and called out, "Hey, Ron, water, please!" So I filled a glass, walked it over, handed it to him, waited while he drank some, offered the rest to her, and then took the glass back. Not a stride was missed, other than for the fluid intake, that I could see...

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Post by Apollonaris Zeus » Wed Jun 30, 2004 10:11 am

actiongrl wrote: Not everyone wants to see other people having sex. Please do yourself and everyone else a favor and keep it to locations that are designed for such affairs.

Especially if you're not going to share!

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Post by theCryptofishist » Wed Jun 30, 2004 10:17 am

AntiM wrote:I wonder what the couple engaged in sex would do if you just sat on the couch next to the fucking/sucking pair and struck up a conversation with them as if they were just hanging out too. Just start chatting away about the weather, or the coffee, or the art, and see if their physical intercourse collapses under your social intercourse. Don't go away under any circumstances, just keep up the chit-chat. Or is that not as funny as it seems it could be?
One of my more bizarre experiences as a medic was assisting at an OD in one of the rave camp and having couple insist on sitting on that same couch to neck. THAT wasn't funny. It's also more extreame than what you're talking about.

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Post by theshaman » Wed Jun 30, 2004 10:26 am

My buddy had a real nice semi-private dome set up in our camp. He and his girl hardly stopped fucking long enough to go outside. During one of their sessions, he was taking her from behind...and suddenly he felt a presence. He turned his head to see another campmate of ours in a teddy bear outfit. His girl looks sheepishly over her shoulder to notice there were now 2 guys behind her and one was in a teddy bear outfit.

"Grapes?" said my friend in the teddy bear outfit. The couple could only shrug as he gave them both a couple of cold delicious grapes each...and then dissappeared. It evidently was so quick and surreal they just continued, and afterword kept asking themselves "did that really happen?"
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Post by technopatra » Thu Jul 01, 2004 12:29 am

In response to the original question: the cafe staff will totally kick people out of the Cafe for having sex there. We actually have to figure anti-sex tricks into our furniture/art planning & placement.

I haven't actually seen it happen, but the stories ring far and wide. Regardless of what a turn on it might be for the folks involved, it is a violation to many of the folks who are not. You are taking away another person's right to choose what they experience.

And that ain't right.

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Post by Ron » Thu Jul 01, 2004 12:04 pm

technopatra wrote:.... You are taking away another person's right to choose what they experience.

And that ain't right.
Using that standard it's impossible to exist in the same space as another person without also being, "ain't right." When you stand 3 feet in front of my you have forced yourself into my experience, wether or not your fucking anyone. You have taken away my "right to choose what (I) experience," by your very existance in my experience field.

I'm not defending public sex, althought I personally think it causes no harm it's still subjectively considered rude, but am saying that the above standard is impossible to apply.

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Post by shitmouse » Fri Jul 02, 2004 9:40 pm

AntiM wrote:Actually, one of my Nay buddies on Diego Garcia had a roommate (also a good friend of mine) who brought home young ladies for sex at inopportune times, such as when first buddy needed to sleep.
i've been to Diego Garcia, -("footprint in the sand").
the one thing it *didn't* have was "ladies". still a lot of lovin' going on non-the-less.

beautiful place though. amazing low canopy, sub-tropical flora and fauna there. -(and crabs).
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Post by Badger » Fri Jul 02, 2004 9:50 pm

i've been to Diego Garcia, - the one thing it *didn't* have was "ladies". still a lot of lovin' going on non-the-less.

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Post by Rage » Wed Jul 07, 2004 4:28 pm

For one that finds even music with lyrics detracts from the sexual experience, conversation would definately keep me from coming or at least lessen the power of the orgasm. I like the, "it's all about this moment" feeling.
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Post by Friendly Jen » Tue Jul 13, 2004 1:05 pm

Back in 2000 I did give a BJ in center camp late at night. We were discrete did not leave a mess, and did enjoy good conversation before durring and after. However, law enforcement and BMORG is WAY more uptight than they ever have been before and BM is far from the venue for free expression it once was. Keep your public sex to the deep playa and of course LNT.

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Post by Oubliet » Tue Jul 13, 2004 1:48 pm

"LNT"?

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Post by blyslv » Tue Jul 13, 2004 1:54 pm

lnt = LEAVES NO TRACE.

This is one of the better things about BM, although it sometimes seems to be observed more in the breach. It's fun living up to it, the effort required makes you think abouut the amazing amount of stuff we all consume.
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Post by Friendly Jen » Tue Jul 13, 2004 6:35 pm

blyslv wrote: It's fun living up to it, the effort required makes you think about the amazing amount of stuff we all consume.
Are we still talking about sex on the playa? :wink:

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Post by congochris » Sat Aug 14, 2004 3:38 am

My first day on my first visit to the playa I came across a public stage a camp had built on a street corner, open for all to see as they passed by. They invited/cajoled passerby's to perform. After several poets, wannabe comedians, etc took the stage, a couple decide that their contribution to entertain BRC citizenry was by having sex. After a few minutes of oral, they went on to missionary. The whole time a local law enforcemnt officer was watching from down the street, but said or did nothing, untill the show started attracting too big of a crowd, which is when he then told everyone to break it up, but took no action against the couple. Of course this was back in the good ole days-pre millenium. I would say that during the morning coffee rush would not be the best time to express your affection. However I say go for it, but be discreet, keep your eyes open for children, and if anyone complains or appears to be upset, then cease and desist. And yes, bring your own blankets, handi wipes, etc to keep things clean. And if you want someone to take pictures for you......

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Post by AntiM » Sat Aug 14, 2004 10:37 am

shitmouse wrote:
i've been to Diego Garcia, -("footprint in the sand").
the one thing it *didn't* have was "ladies". still a lot of lovin' going on non-the-less.
Ah, but that all changed on the Footprint of Freedom. I was one of about 200 women in a pool of 2,000 men, not including the civilians and merchant marines. Yeehaaa. Mostly women now I hear.

Absolutely beautiful island. I loved it, never was so tan or thin before or since!

As for sex in the cafe, three words: Get A Tent.

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Post by Sensei » Sat Aug 14, 2004 10:59 am

Ok, fine. But admit it. At night, it's fun to make out like teenagers in center camp. Definitely one of the highlights.

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