I made a big farkin' mistake this year and I gotta vent! Its nothing serious, just need to tell my story, May I? No choice...anyway, its Monday and my past 5 burns I do my 2 hours of moop and secure my truck load and drive out by myself into the day/eve. This year, I think, no different. I am not required to stay, everything is close to done.
I met an amazing "friend" this year, so I make my way over to his camp before I leave to say bye. We had made plans the night before to meet up at the Peppermill in Reno after exodus so we could spend some Default time together and shower and not be distracted by anything Playa and vibe the fuck out.

I got enough reception to secure the reservation. So I go say bye around noon. He still has a lot of stuff to do. I figure about 2 hours worth, so I dont ask questions.....We already made a cool plan and talked a lot about our lives together so I was feeling ethereal and not stressed at that point, didnt feel like drilling him for info. (DUMB!) "See you in Reno!" we gleefully said to each other, hugged and kissed goodbye for now.
I drive off into the day, the afternoon, the eve, the night.....took me 10 hours to get to Reno from BRC. I was prepared for XODust: Food, beverages, shade, spray bottle, and a pen and paper. Wrote a thousand poems. Listened to BMIR. Met some people. It was a long day.
I get to Reno. Mind you, I live 2 hours away over the Donner summit, I usually just drive home afterwards. But I was stoked to get another night in with my new pal! I go to the Peppermill, a place Ive never been before, and it is overwhelming and I am ALONE. Blinky glowy and flashy, but not Burny. Sigh. It is Absolutely HUGE and INSANE. There are some burners arriving but nobody wants to talk. Its 10pm and I settle into a VERY nice "romantic" room might I add. Wow. I shower and wander. I figure 2 hours my friend should get there. He has no cell phone. Ruh-roh. I am tired but not too bad because I am excited, and got a decent night sleep the night before but of course I am playa haggard. We didnt make specific plans but I figure he would ask for me at the front desk.....but for some reason I didnt want to take the chance so I lingered around the lobby for HOURS. I missed dinner (I dont do fancy hotels usually and didnt realize there was 24 hour room service) so I continue to snack on fucking nutz and seeds. OMG I am a complete wreck hahahahahaaa!! What a TOTAL loser.
So I drink and talk on the phone and end up getting a little buzzed. I go to the lobby to see who is checking in often, lots and lots of grumpy burners, that was it.....I couldnt even get a convo out of any of em. Exodus left everyone pissed off I guess.
I shoudla went to sleep but I just couldnt miss out on seeing my new friend! At this point i realize I fucked up On Playa by being too vague and I was paying the consequences.
I walk out to my truck to get a few more things and I just burst into tears. I am so fucking tired, its fucking 3am. This slicky pimpy New Zealander dressed in all black sees me crying. "Come here! Cry it out!" He was a virgin burner and was absolutely ecstatic. He wanted nothing but to help me out. He gave me his drink and hugged me. I finally calmed down and for the first time all day since I left BRC, someone was really talking to me in person that felt my vibes.
I settled down and went back to my room. That was it, I am now going to go to sleep...fuck it. But I decide to go down for one more looksy in the lobby. Sure enough, dusty exodus pissed burners are still arriving in droves. Hotel lobby is working overtime tonite. Just then I see some familiar faces from my new friends camp!!! IS HE HERE IS HE HERE? They look at me haggardly with shit fucked looks on their faces and pout "yes" as if it was like asking them to drive me to Texas. I look towards the front door and its him!!! He drops what hes holding and runs over to me and hugs me and kisses me all happy slap. Its 4am now.....but he seems unaffected. One of the things i liked about this person is that they are super easy going.....but the trick with easy going people is that you gotta ask them questions and make some plans because they are too easy going to do that. heh. heh. heh.
He check his party in an runs over to me and goes up to my room with me and jumps in the shower and orders us omlettes from the room service menu. I wont go into details but lets just say I was SO glad I got decent sleep on Sunday night.
My 2 hour drive home to the Sierra Foothills the next day was fabulously easy and nice. The Peppermill will always give me the creeps though! I was so alone there for SOOOO many hours.......
NEXT YEAR: STAY AND HELP A CAMP AND LEAVE WITH A CARAVAN. DUH.