EPLAYA VALENTINES

regynalonglank · Post by **regynalonglank** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 12:42 am

oh honey, i am so sorry. (((((big hug)))))

LeChatNoir · Post by **LeChatNoir** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 6:23 am

There was time in my life, some number of fuzzy years back that someone who’d I’d trusted with my entire self ripped my heart out of my chest. And she didn’t do it in a quick fashion, rather in a way that I can only describe as two trees grown together, grains intertwined after many years that were now being slowly torn apart. These days I’m honestly having trouble remembering parts of that period of life, but I took from it lessons that I know and remember like I know my own self. And one of those was this:

I don’t have to be treated anyway I don’t want to be treated. If someone doesn’t respect me, their mistreatment of me is not the issue, me allowing them to mistreat me is since that’s the only one I have any control over.

I wish I had mine

Wants and needs are often two different things, Sockster. Things will get better... you've got to trust me on this one and just let them.

I hope you’re feeling less beat down today, my friend. I feel for you more than you probably realize.

gigglesnort · Post by **gigglesnort** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 6:57 am

I remember a valentine's a handful of years back, with the schizo ex. He had been wanting a guitar for hte longest time, his having been broken for sometime. I loved to listen to him play and sing, especially to the children at bedtime; he could be so gentle and sweet.

So I saved my money, of which I had little, and I bided my time, of which little was ever unaccounted for by him, and I managed to buy him a guitar for valentine's day unbeknownst.

Upon presenting it to him, however, he became enraged. He just knew that I knew that what he really wanted for valentine's day was something slutty for me to wear that night, and he knew that I got the fucking guitar instead just to fuck with his head. It went on for hours, with every name in the book being thrown at me, every insult he could muster, a look of hateful disgust burning from his eyes.

I understand, as well, and feel for you, my friend. And all that LeChat said: I cannot blame him, as I'm the one that allowed myself to be in that position. And making decisions about what I want and do not want for myself is hte very best tonic for the heartache.

notthat1 · Post by **notthat1** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 7:09 am

I just saw this thread .

Just a shout out , hugs, kisses, and all that other mushy stuff to

GE - we have yet to * really* meet , look forward to it .

Rian - i've know you for a short time , and from day 1 you've been totally cool to me .

Lydia - http://eplaya.burningman.org/viewtopic. ... 99&start=0

Reba - I adore this woman . Reba is just real , not afraid to wear her heart on her sleeve . Open and honest, and makes the best damn beer in the Northwest
.

I'm blessed to know these fine ladies .

LeChatNoir · Post by **LeChatNoir** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 9:08 am

gigglesnort wrote:I cannot blame him, as I'm the one that allowed myself to be in that position.

Ouch, giggles... yeah, it's a tough realization to come to and it doesn't make those hurtful things sting any less at the moment they happen, nor does it excuse the other party's bad behavior. But it does make those wounds heal up a lot better.

Rian Jackson · Post by **Rian Jackson** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 9:15 am

Special Valentine goodness (a day late!) for that black cat.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 9:18 am

i think its still yesterday SOMEWHERE in the world...so im not really late...rian sweety will you be my platonic valentine?*kisses*

Rian Jackson · Post by **Rian Jackson** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 10:00 am

LamplighterDuke wrote:i think its still yesterday SOMEWHERE in the world...so im not really late...rian sweety will you be my platonic valentine?*kisses*

Um... Fuck yeah, baby!

wanna go ogle men together?

Ranger Genius · Post by **Ranger Genius** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 10:08 am

google men together?

Rian Jackson · Post by **Rian Jackson** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 10:16 am

o·gle Pronunciation Key (gl, ôgl)
v. o·gled, o·gling, o·gles
v. tr.

1. To stare at.
2. To stare at impertinently, flirtatiously, or amorously.

v. intr.

To stare in an impertinent, flirtatious, or amorous manner.

n.

An impertinent, flirtatious, or amorous stare.

Ranger Genius · Post by **Ranger Genius** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 10:21 am

I know what ogling is. but you're gonna get a right smart bop for using "google" as a verb.

Rian Jackson · Post by **Rian Jackson** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 10:23 am

Ranger Genius wrote:I know what ogling is. but you're gonna get a right smart bop for using "google" as a verb.

i didn't. there's a space between 'go' and 'ogle'

phthbtbtbt.

Ranger Genius · Post by **Ranger Genius** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 10:27 am

Doesn't matter. I was mostly just looking for an excuse to give you a right smart bop. The sentence cannot be commuted or pardoned, either. Sorry.

Rian Jackson · Post by **Rian Jackson** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 10:51 am

And if I want a left, intellectually impaired hit instead? What then?

I dare you to come out here and do it in person.

Ranger Genius · Post by **Ranger Genius** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 11:01 am

All in good time, my dear. All in good time.

PurpleKoosh · Post by **PurpleKoosh** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 2:02 pm

A day late and a dollar short, as usual, but I had to share this:

regynalonglank · Post by **regynalonglank** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 2:46 pm

aw! that is the cutest.

joel the ornery · Post by **joel the ornery** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 2:54 pm

regynalonglank wrote:aw! that is the cutest.

i hear they are "good eating"

tasty little varmits.

Rob the Wop · Post by **Rob the Wop** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 2:55 pm

joel the ornery wrote:
regynalonglank wrote:aw! that is the cutest.
i hear they are "good eating"

tasty little varmits.

Two all beef patties, ferrets, cheese, pickles, onions on a sesame seed bun?

cowboyangel · Post by **cowboyangel** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 3:57 pm

anyone ever hear of Reg Malloy and ferret legging???

Donita · Post by **Donita** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 5:40 pm

Not having anything better to do last night, I took a box of those necco candy sweethearts and wrote naughty messages on them like Fuck Me, Suck Me, Eat Me, Lick Me, Let's Fuck, etc. It made them more interesting and fun.

LeChatNoir · Post by **LeChatNoir** » Tue Feb 15, 2005 6:01 pm

anyone ever hear of Reg Malloy and ferret legging???

That is a great book, man. I loved every story in it.

Rian Jackson · Post by **Rian Jackson** » Wed Feb 16, 2005 11:50 am

LeChatNoir · Post by **LeChatNoir** » Wed Feb 16, 2005 1:53 pm

I admire your candor

Rian Jackson · Post by **Rian Jackson** » Wed Feb 16, 2005 1:55 pm

LeChatNoir wrote:I admire your candor

are you talking about the first eplaya valentine i sent you or the above image?

LeChatNoir · Post by **LeChatNoir** » Wed Feb 16, 2005 1:57 pm

the above image

LeChatNoir · Post by **LeChatNoir** » Wed Feb 16, 2005 1:58 pm

I'm thinking I need a drink...

Rian Jackson · Post by **Rian Jackson** » Wed Feb 16, 2005 1:59 pm

well then, i'm sorry to say i didn't mean it.

LeChatNoir · Post by **LeChatNoir** » Wed Feb 16, 2005 2:00 pm

I know that goofball.

geekster · Post by **geekster** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 8:50 am

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