I think the key is that you fucking assumed. And you blamed. And you did it without thinking. And people do that all the fucking time, and that's the problem. Be careful not to assume, even here "in the states". And plenty of people making assumptions about "over there" assume wrong, too.bullD wrote: EZ Rian! I apologize but, without your giving any background info I had no fucking idea that THIS is what you were talking about. I assumed that this shit fucking happened here in the states where it usually IS about bad decisions or being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
I will take that fucking 'A' for being an asshole but, this is the 'FUCK' thread where the conversation is usually not quite so fucking serious. Also, some of your comments, imo, are really absurd and should be kept to yourself or on a political/hate thread.
And a lot of conversation on this thread is fucking serious. That's a large part of why it exists, and why it continues. You know- "Fuck, my friend died"; "Fuck, I lost my job"; "Fuck, I'm getting divorced". Sure, there's also the "fucking laugh" and the "fucking good news". It's all part of FUCKING getting it out of your system. It's not about being fucking dismissive of what's going on with other people, and not about fucking suggesting that they keep it to themselves.
And look closely- Rian's comments aren't any more absurd than yours. In fact, she was trying to show how absurd your comments were by using the same reasoning.
Rian was explicitly talking about a fucking friend, whose friends were fucking killed or locked up. And her anguish and frustration at not knowing how to help. She was being very fucking real. Blaming the victims or saying "oh, well"- not helping her a lick.
Next time fucking stop to think how off base you might be. You sound smart enough to see it, when you're not hastily assuming, or being defensive.