You keep posting 'CT is for women', and people keep refuting you and slapping you down--including the women who started the whole thing.I keep saying "CT IS FOR WOMEN" and people keep posting reasons why it should be.
??The real issue at stake is how do we respect eachother so that everyone gets to freedom of expression without ruining someone else's good time? Is it even possible
No. It's not possible. Humans aren't designed that way. Instead, we try things like BRC, where the only limit on you is pretty much what you are able to do. EVERYONE has the exact same oppuortunity to have freedom of expression. As long as we all have that, and we all respect each others right to have that, we'll do fine.
It doesn't mean that we won't get on each others nerves, or do things that totally piss of some other people.
It simply means that we're all free, and we know it, and we're willing to default to the notion that someone's expressing THEIR freedoms--even if it annoys me.
In the case of CT, the people who don't want to be photographed are ABSLOUTELY free to have that happen---by staying away from things that they know ARE photographed, or by staying out of events that are photographed. Simple.
Rockdad, who has fled, who TAKES photographs at a photographed event, IS respecting everyone's freedom. HughMungus, who seeks to stop people from doing something they've been doing since CT started, is NOT.
Understand that HughMungus is, de facto, calling ALL the men who attend CT slobbering perverts who are only there to drool over the naked tits and take pictures to masturbate to and/or sell to unscrupulous porn-peddlers. All of us.

