Soul Mate Existance.

desertswine · Post by **desertswine** » Tue Jul 12, 2005 5:16 pm

:twisted: :oh I forgot...this soulmate thing,that is what cost-co is for.But remember sometimes we just need a play buddie for a while.Lothos

mojo · Post by **mojo** » Tue Jul 12, 2005 7:35 pm

For us, the best part of experiencing Burning Man as a couple is what it does for us OFF playa. We are different as a couple because we have a wonderful, exciting secret that few others around us have ever experienced. (You all know what it's like trying to describe it to someone who has never been....) It has become a part of who we are as a couple. At the end of a day at my law office, I get to come home to someone who knows (and loves) that my hair is purple for one week each year. It makes us ageless to one another. It also takes a hell of a lot of prep work the rest of the year to play this hard for a week and having a partner to share it with is a gift.

Like you guys - the ability to share it with you is a gift as well.

Janka · Post by **Janka** » Wed Jul 13, 2005 12:44 pm

For us, the best part of experiencing Burning Man as a couple is what it does for us OFF playa.

Hey! Why didn't I say that? I know I should have. :)

(The same holds, if sometimes in a lesser extent, to other travels around, too, though. BRC is special, but luckily it is not the only interesting place on Earth.)

Syntonia · Post by **Syntonia** » Sun Jul 17, 2005 12:36 pm

Desert washes all thoughts of Paris and Brittany Brad and Ben Costco stupidity. When dust enters every crevice and curling irons corrode we can suspend judgement size and move perfection criteria no longer matter. Desert camping so many years in my life has always left me blank and distended joyful. As a BM virgin I yearn to cavort with art makers and art mongers on a land I know well. Men I yearn for yes but I'll dump the criteria SWF seeks SWM and focus instead on playa dust and colors music and hu-moting. I yearn to burn...

Stilesfamily · Post by **Stilesfamily** » Tue Jul 19, 2005 3:20 am

This will be my 3rd burn and my wife’s 2nd. We went together in 03 and she stayed home last year with our then 6 week old baby. So I took my father and pined away for the whole week, I had a good time but… let’s face it there is a lot of passionate energy floating around that event and last year I had to reject that energy that was so consuming the year before.
Gabilicious is my playa goddess and I look forward to worshiping her again this year.

MissNev · Post by **MissNev** » Tue Jul 19, 2005 10:44 am

Bringing my mate to the Playa was the beginning of the end for us. I had spent the prior 4 years trying to talk him into going, but he always found a reason not to. Finally, 2 years ago he came with me. It was a disaster. I thought I had prepared him, but he simply could not deal with all of the challenging aspects. In retrospect, I wish I had never insisted that he join me. One of my campmates has never been without her mate...for the past 12 years. They couldn't imagine it any other way. Just like most things in this world, Burning Man is not always a perfect fit. I would love to meet someone that I could share my experiences with, but for now I'm content to enjoy my experiences alone.

desertswine · Post by **desertswine** » Wed Jul 20, 2005 10:19 pm

Everyone has a reason for going or not.My wife and daughter dont do the desert,live in a tent thing,but they do help me shop for the event.So the wants wearer of the castle,tells me go live/playa in this desert,just dont come back with any desert tats,piercing or diseases.Besides she tells me it's the only rest when i'm camping.Remember this everyone needs their own me time every now and then.Lothos

batmansdream · Post by **batmansdream** » Wed Aug 03, 2005 11:38 pm

That is a great partner you have there!
my question: do you concede HER the same freedoms?

desertswine · Post by **desertswine** » Sat Aug 06, 2005 5:16 pm

batsmandream....Why yes I do.She is actually going to Hawaii with our kids for the same time that I'm in the desert.I hope she comes back with tats and a piercing or two.Lothos :twisted: :evil: :twisted: :evil:

spectabillis · Post by **spectabillis** » Sat Aug 06, 2005 5:34 pm

I sold mine for playa fame and fortune.

I want my fucking money back.

ahchim-namdongsang · Post by **ahchim-namdongsang** » Sat Aug 06, 2005 7:02 pm

Just thinking about things statistically: If we were all destined to find our one true "soulmate", given that there's 6 billion or so people in the world the odds that we would ever find that "one" is astronomical. That so many of us find someone we believe to be one we could spend the rest of lives with says to me that there are multiple "soulmate" possibilities. It makes me think that anyone who actually does find their "soulmate" in their town or city amongst a general population of 6 billion on the planet is simply settling. Either that, or there's a grand scheme that aligns us to be in the same vicinity as that one long enough to find them.

There's one for the psyche :)

montana wildhack · Post by **montana wildhack** » Sat Aug 06, 2005 10:08 pm

that's exactly why i thank the goddesses every single day when i wake....i can't believe how fortunate i have been.

RegRad · Post by **RegRad** » Sun Aug 07, 2005 8:41 am

Odds of finding soul mate:
1 : 6,000,000,000

You should play the lotto the odds are better.

By the way the largest number used by man is Centillion.
1 Centillion = 1 (followed by 600 Zeros)

Stilesfamily · Post by **Stilesfamily** » Sun Aug 07, 2005 10:05 am

The experience my wife and I have shared together, I just don’t know. I could not image have the same experience with anyone else. Our entire courtship met or exceeded every fantasy I ever had about meeting, courting, proposing, marrying and honeymooning a woman. Our relationship is far from perfect but I could not ask for more. I know, kinda disgusting. Sorry

Gabilicious · Post by **Gabilicious** » Mon Aug 08, 2005 7:50 am

Couple bliss on the playa exists. This will be my husband and my 2nd burn together. Last year I stayed behind with a brand new baby and ushered him out the door to BM without me. He said it wasn't the same and called everyday on the satalite. I couldn't imagine BM without him. It is so awsome for our marriage on SO many levels.

Gabilicious · Post by **Gabilicious** » Mon Aug 08, 2005 7:53 am

Hi honey! I can't believe this! See what I mean

Stilesfamily · Post by **Stilesfamily** » Mon Aug 08, 2005 8:28 am

Gabilicious, Don’t I know you?

LOL

Stilesfamily · Post by **Stilesfamily** » Mon Aug 08, 2005 8:40 am

mojo wrote:For us, the best part of experiencing Burning Man as a couple is what it does for us OFF playa. We are different as a couple because we have a wonderful, exciting secret that few others around us have ever experienced.

Same thing for my wife and I, I know exactly what you mean.

Dr. Pyro · Post by **Dr. Pyro** » Mon Aug 08, 2005 5:10 pm

Yo, MissNev: If you're looking for a temporary "playa boyfriend" for a few days, you know where I'm at!

theCryptofishist · Post by **theCryptofishist** » Mon Aug 08, 2005 5:28 pm

He'll even let you use the barbie vibe.

MissNev · Post by **MissNev** » Mon Aug 08, 2005 9:46 pm

If I get to use the Barbie Vibe, why would I need Pyro??? I'm quite flatterd, Doc. That's a pretty attractive offer!

Stilesfamily · Post by **Stilesfamily** » Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:29 pm

AAh how the zits of Burning Man love pop, and ooze slowly across the face of the e-playa.

Kinetic IV · Post by **Kinetic IV** » Mon Aug 08, 2005 11:43 pm

Now that's an interesting description.

dj big E · Post by **dj big E** » Tue Aug 09, 2005 3:36 pm

Women of brc I two would like to find a soulmate. LOL but just in case this doesn't pan out I am available for groping, cuddling, kissing, Or one night stands!!!!!

Lmao Big E

Stilesfamily · Post by **Stilesfamily** » Tue Aug 09, 2005 11:35 pm

It has been brought to my attention that my previous post may have been excessively vulgar and demeaning. Upon further reflection I must agree and would like to apologize for any embarrassment it may have caused. For a full refund please send a self addressed stamped envelope plus $2 shipping and handling to StilesFamily, Care of Alternative Energy Zone, 05:30 and Catharsis, Black Rock City, NE. Please allow 6 to 8 weeks for delivery. Or feel free to stop by and punch me in the nose.

DokktorWho222 · Post by **DokktorWho222** » Wed Aug 10, 2005 11:24 am

Sand_man wrote:How do I find this girl. I don't want sex, I want somthing special. Any thoughts?

Lower your standards of physical beauty. True beauty exists on the inside.

pedro del sol · Post by **pedro del sol** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 8:11 am

Try to sit quietly in a comfortable space and focus your intention upon what you want. You may see abstract faces, but it's really an emotional connection that you want (I guess) when you search for the soulmate. Do this meditation daily. You will begin to stregthen your projection. On the Playa, continue, and others will begin to sense your spiritual transmition. Smile, speak with a voice of love and intention, look her/him in the eye...

You are like a sun, when shining, and then the gravity will bring it to you

Oh, wow!

ZaphodBurner · Post by **ZaphodBurner** » Fri Aug 19, 2005 11:25 am

Stilesfamily wrote:Gabilicious, Don’t I know you?

LOL

You guys fuckin' rock!

I married between the years I wanted to go to Burning Man and when I finally could, and she was unable to go at all, admits being freaked out by the idea based on ignorance, until we finally went last year.

Right now she's up on our StarCastle hitting the handrails with a belt sander so visitors don't get splinters. Probably wearing a bikini, goggles, bandana and the hot pink cowboy hat I bought her, listening to Sky Cries Mary, Floater or Mutaytor.

The same things at BM that cause weak relationship to break cause strong ones to grow. Burning Man, according to her, broke her fear of motherhoo...

"Hey, where'd that guy go?"

can't sit still · Post by **can't sit still** » Tue Aug 23, 2005 9:16 pm

I'd like to find my soul-mate too. At one time I had the parameters firmly laid out. A woman who had the physique of Gabriella Reece, The independence of a Valkyrie, the command that Tina Turner had as the Acid Queen in Tommy, the sensuality of Rebecca Demourney, the wit of John Cleese and the intelligence of Nikola Tesla.

It didn't take long,,,of course,,,til I came to the conclusion that such a person would not have any interest in me.
So now, I'll settle for intelligence and compassion.
Dan B

robbidobbs · Post by **robbidobbs** » Tue Aug 23, 2005 10:53 pm

Works for me.

Soul Mate Existance.

The ultimate bubble, Gabilicious

soulmate thing

mr swine

Stilesfam

women of brc

Re: Soul Mate Existance.

Focus your intention in Meditation

Soul Mate Existance.