bm_cricket wrote: I don't understand why it's so hard to hear me saying that if she's drunk, don't stick anything inside her except water?[/i]
Great advice. For a man or woman sober enough to remember this, and act on it.
That, however, from what little information we have, is not this situation. Just as she was unable to say, get out of the truck, or say no, we don't know his status (except that some girl he'd allegedly been in love with, and friends with, for ten years all of a sudden gave him the go-ahead - including "laughing" when she woke up to find him going down on her). He might have not noticed she was sleeping, due to his intoxicated state.
As I've said for seven fucking pages, doesn't make it any less angering/sad/tragic, but doesn't give cause to consider this guy a rapist.
If I was fooling around drunk with a friend (who KNEW I had feelings for them) and we passed out together, and I woke up I'd feel confident givin' an ol' reach-around, pokey pokey wakey wakey. Now, if the person was unresponsive, I'd roll back over and go back to sleep (but that's never happened). Then tease them about it in the morning while they make me bacon.
I've been the one woked up by a little winkwinknudgenudge, after heavy drinking and passing out, and I've never, while half-passed out drunk, been unable to say something like "Fuck off! I'm sleeping! Save it for later! Knock it off!'
I don't find her situation weird or unusual at all, for several reasons/several aspects of the situation.