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by dangerpuss » Sun Mar 29, 2009 9:47 am
The difference there is that your cats were able to go outside, whereas our cats and clreindeer's cats are not. We live next to a very busy street, and are not willing to risk letting them out.
Cats still have some wild in them, and the majority of them are in heaven when outside chasing bugs through the grass and smelling new smells. By contrast, inside cats are in an environment that is largely made for humans, and have only whatever you have - plus you - to amuse them. Leaving them alone in that environment - minus you - takes away a big part of what makes their days interesting.
Pet "ownership" means (to me) that we need to take full responsibility for that animal. Our cats can't go outside, and are used to getting very regular attention from us on a daily basis. As long as one person is sitting down, my partner's cat is on a lap. My cat follows me around the house and when I sit down she sits at my feet and stares at me...for hours. They sleep with us at night, and have regular cues for us when they are hungry or want to play. Whether or not they miss us when we are gone is seriously debatable, as I have seen his cat react to hearing his car door slam outside by running to the window and watching him walk to the house, and then running to wait at the top of the stairs for him to come through the door, dropping to the floor for a belly rub the minute he walks in. My cat does something similar when I return home. It seems to me that they are looking to us for comfort, companionship, food, and amusement, and it's my responsibility to make sure that they get those things.
Yes, it's totally _possible_ to leave your cats alone for a long time. But is it the best choice, when it's just as easy to have a friend help out in your absence? Personally, I don't think so, so I make my choices accordingly.