A hello from BK, NYC!

[dimasilk]

Hello, everyone! My name is DimaSilk, sending a big hello from Brooklyn, NY. I'm planning to go to Burning Man first time next year, in 2015. This year was the year of turmoil for me personally, health-wise, and I've come to a realization that life, is, in fact, short, and should be cherished, and I have to experience it to the fullest.

I love helping people (the main reason why I'm in Nursing School in my mid 30's, changing careers is NOT easy!)... I'm a free spirit that has been bogged down by the monotony of an everyday big city life...

I have a beautiful family who I love very much, and my wife is as excited about going as I am. I love music, I love dancing, I love people, and have always put others before myself. That has to change (a little), I think, and I feel I am ready to experience the Burn

I've read all the posts on the BM website, watched dozens of videos, read many blogs and dozens of threads on Eplaya, and already started looking for a campervan rental, among other things (it's never too early!). Safe to say - emotionally, mentally, and physically I am ready. Now it's a matter of actual preparation of ... everything else! Glad to be here and hope for some useful pointers.

Thank you for having me

[delle]

Thank you, DimaSilk, for being here.

WELCOME!!

You're so right about it never being too early! Some of the hardest things to read in here are accounts of things having been left too late. It is good that you are so aware about so much, so early.

Looking forward to getting to know you and your wife over the coming year.

ENJOY!!!

[Sandstorm]

Hey, DimaSilk! Welcome to the site and community. Like you I'm based in NYC. I hope that you make it HOME next year!

Good for you learning to put yourself first in your life. In the past I've also done too good of a job of putting others needs before my own, so I commend you on making various positive changes in your life, including making your needs a priority in your own life. Best wishes for your health and happiness.

You probably already know about the NYC "Orphan" party tomorrow night. If not, I've included below a link to the party's FB page. Dusty hugs!

[Thecatman]

WELCOME!!

have always put others before myself

That, is a very good quality

[Sandstorm]

WELCOME!!

have always put others before myself

That, is a very good quality

Unfortunately, that's not always true. I say that from experience, not just to be contrary. Dusty hugs.

[dimasilk]

Firstly, thank you for welcoming me to ePlaya I'm looking forward to exchanging ideas and general chitchat throughout the year until and after the next Burn! My heart and mind are set on going, I only hope my body will hold up.

Secondly, just a little comment regarding "being good to others before being good to myself".. I've learned that without taking care of myself, I can't offer my full love, support and everything else I can give, to those around me, the people I love, the people I want to help. Without a healthy and happy DimaSilk, there is no happy friends and family.. It just goes to show how much we, people, affect those around us. My usual day starts at 5AM, and ends at 11PM. I do my best to leave my anxieties and worries and all other issues behind the door, before I enter my home. It doesn't always work. My tiredness, anger and frustration transfer onto my family members, and that is the last thing I want to do! This is becoming a rant I apologize. My point is - I'm striving towards making myself a better person. For myself, for my loved ones, and the rest of the people I come in contact with.

Hope that makes sense

[OceanMermaid]

HELLO!

I too am off to burning man next year. So I, welcome you as well. It is good to see that there are others that are doing it now vs. never....we have the opportunity, why wait? Its never to late to start a new beginning. Take care of yourself so we can take care of others.

Peace.

[Sandstorm]

This is becoming a rant I apologize.

No, that's not a rant; it's just you being open and honest about aspects of your being and life. That's a healthy thing to do! Never apologize for being honest and open.

HELLO!

I too am off to burning man next year.

OceanMermaid: Welcome to the site and the community. Best wishes with your first journey HOME. Dusty hugs!

[Drawingablank]

Welcome

[FreePeacelove]

I like your story


Your Welcome!

[Elderberry]

Hey there, welcome to eplaya!