bisexuality

Rob the Wop · Post by **Rob the Wop** » Thu Oct 09, 2003 10:47 pm

PJ wrote:
Ivy wrote:
Ivy i have no problem answering that question. I have had sex with two males and one female.
Damn, Tiff! I'm ten years older than you and could say the same thing! Don't you ahve other stuff to do, like homework or something?
Perhaps in Tiff's case she didn't mean, "All at the same time."

A picture is worth a thousand words.
And a whole roll of film is worth at least a thousand bucks.

Kinetic II · Post by **Kinetic II** » Thu Oct 09, 2003 10:51 pm

Somebody's not doing their homework and is seriously far behind. (Hint)

At the same time I absolutely hate grading papers and that's added to the problem. But I'm drifting here.

She had a b/f but he got dumped for a g/f who has the same name as she does. What makes it even more interesting...I know about it, her mom and dad don't. Guess who has to run cover for her sometimes?

When I explored this side of things I had to keep it a secret. She gets to practically tell the world. Things have really changed.

THE ORIGINAL DIGIMAN · Post by **THE ORIGINAL DIGIMAN** » Thu Oct 09, 2003 11:10 pm

turns out you guys like this thread after all.

hmmmmm

Ivy · Post by **Ivy** » Thu Oct 09, 2003 11:15 pm

I know about it, her mom and dad don't.

Well, it's on the internet now, baby! If it's on the internet, someone (usually the person you would leat like to) will find it.

She had a b/f but he got dumped for a g/f

Oh, to be a young, trendy teenager...

Perhaps in Tiff's case she didn't mean, "All at the same time."

Your cow's just jealous.

THE ORIGINAL DIGIMAN · Post by **THE ORIGINAL DIGIMAN** » Thu Oct 09, 2003 11:20 pm

Ivy wrote:
I know about it, her mom and dad don't.
Well, it's on the internet now, baby! If it's on the internet, someone (usually the person you would leat like to) will find it.

She had a b/f but he got dumped for a g/f
Oh, to be a young, trendy teenager...

Perhaps in Tiff's case she didn't mean, "All at the same time."
Your cow's just jealous.

i'm jealous of the cow.
....oh wait a minute wrong thread

Dragontear · Post by **Dragontear** » Fri Oct 10, 2003 6:01 pm

Ivy I did not mean I had sex with them all at the same time. They were all at different times.

As for what my brother said I did not dump my boyfriend for a girl. Things were not working out with my b/f so I ended it, then about a month later I started to like a year long female friend of mine. We started flirting and then she asked me out. So my brother was wrong.

I did mispell a few words sorry. Thank you for not jumping me for it but you should of. I will pay more attention to my post from now on.

Ivy · Post by **Ivy** » Fri Oct 10, 2003 9:50 pm

Ivy I did not mean I had sex with them all at the same time. They were all at different times.

I never said you did.

I never said I did, either.

You can thank PJ for that one.

TawnyGnosis · Post by **TawnyGnosis** » Sat Oct 11, 2003 11:05 am

I would venture to say that most people are bisexual, and they just swing more heavily to one one side of the spectrum or the other.

I find I really am attracted to males much more in a carnal, rip- their-clothes off and bite them way. Yet there is constantly the undercurrent of my attraction to women too.

Maybe it's just like being an adolescent when you don't know exactly what you want done to you, but are still drawn to certain people. Without much real world experience( I've only been with a couple women) I'm not really sure if it's something I want to continue or if the desire will get stronger.

Bisexual people arent slutty, but usually more open minded and positive about sex in general.

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Sun Oct 12, 2003 2:39 am

well i'm gonna say i'm happy the way this thread turned out and did as well as it did.

better than i intended.

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Mon Oct 13, 2003 1:55 am

sorry i needed to bring this up to the front.

got a problem with that?

i thought not.

Dragontear · Post by **Dragontear** » Fri Oct 17, 2003 6:05 pm

I agree DE FACTO. It shocks me. Lately the e-playans have been up tight and jumpy but not on this thread. THANK GOD! Funny PJ. I did not get to really talk to PJ I hope I get to next year! When I introduced myself at Bm I was afraid to tell people due to last years thread I started. A few people where like "So your the famous DragonTear..."It was scary at times but hey it was funny too!

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Fri Oct 17, 2003 6:24 pm

Dragontear wrote:I agree DE FACTO. It shocks me. Lately the e-playans have been up tight and jumpy but not on this thread. THANK GOD! Funny PJ. I did not get to really talk to PJ I hope I get to next year! When I introduced myself at Bm I was afraid to tell people due to last years thread I started. A few people where like "So your the famous DragonTear..."It was scary at times but hey it was funny too!

here is the fact of it all. i like all kinds of people. i always have, but i have never been able to have them get along. especially in areas this sensitive.....well untill burningman. dont get me wrong not everybody is ment to get along. i grew up in new york.....city that is. so i kind of miss the village atmosphear.

i figure it's best to post topics that come close to what i want or think could be acceptable enough and then not say anything and work my way from there so when the dust settled, i could speak my mind without being slapped or taken the wrong way.
well i did'nt quite get slapped.

hope this thread gets even better. better than my other threads....well mabey better than girlie guy but not better than girlie girl.

thanks. glad you like it. glad i survived most of the flames....... so far.

and yes my writing sucks big time eggs.

but i dont have the time i need to re wite because i'm rendering some stuff for some friends.

beca · Post by **beca** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 12:12 am

I agree with Tempest. Although I have never been with a woman I would not be opposed to the idea. I find women extremly attractive but for right now I tend to embrace the penis....

But in all honesty was hoping to find the woman to share myself with at Bm 2003 but maybe 2004 will yield different results....

Sylvia · Post by **Sylvia** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 12:37 am

Well, then Beca, I'll save a dance for you.

beca · Post by **beca** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 12:43 am

as if just the Bm event was not enough to look forward to now there is even more.....Life just keeps on getting better and better....

I will save you a dance as well sylvia......

angelface · Post by **angelface** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 2:13 am

I love women.. they are cuddly and sexy, I love curves, I love boobs.. I also love men, and tend to end up in long term rlationships with men.. they don't usually seem to mind if I want to invite a girl to play.. bisexuality works out well for me

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 11:51 am

Dragontear wrote:I agree DE FACTO. It shocks me. Lately the e-playans have been up tight and jumpy but not on this thread.

Just wondering. Has it been somewhat uptight this year at Burningman? I did'nt go this year and it's been a long time since i went. I'm not sure if it's animosity or what but your right. There is unusual amounts of grouchyness not just on this BBS but other Burningman BBs's and lists. what's up with that?

Anybody know.

Any Bisexual twists on it. (yes I enjoy thier point of view and uniqe perspectives. Not that others don't have intersting points of views. I like bisexual twists plus they understand animosity.)

Tiahaar · Post by **Tiahaar** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 9:19 pm

DE FACTO wrote:
Any Bisexual twists on it. (yes I enjoy thier point of view and uniqe perspectives. Not that others don't have intersting points of views. I like bisexual twists plus they understand animosity.)

A chance to promote my favorite author, Storm Constantine! (from the book "Wraeththu"): "Wraeththu have spawned many legends...Men had their goddesses, women named as the most beautiful and potent creatures that God could create. Wraeththu surpass all that. In them, beauty is complete because it is both male and female; the way it should be."

Do bisexuals/gays/lesbians perhaps have a wider and more accepting and insightful world view gifted them due in part to their coming to terms with their other than traditional male-female sexuality? I would argue yes.

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 9:26 pm

Tiahaar wrote: Do bisexuals/gays/lesbians perhaps have a wider and more accepting and insightful world view gifted them due in part to their coming to terms with their other than traditional male-female sexuality? I would argue yes.

Woo Hooo!

Kinetic II · Post by **Kinetic II** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 9:33 pm

Tiahaar wrote:Do bisexuals/gays/lesbians perhaps have a wider and more accepting and insightful world view gifted them due in part to their coming to terms with their other than traditional male-female sexuality? I would argue yes.

I can answer that with an absolute YES, we do have a wider view and are more accepting of things because of it. With our "Anything that moves" choices we have a lot more interactions with people, we see different perspectives that some of the monogamists might not...and since we can understand more sides of the complexity in relationships, we have more sympathy, more understanding. Being raised in the Ozarks for many years of my life I was raised with a rural mindset towards minorities, even women. But that has dramatically changed over time. So much so that I feel I am much more open minded. I have dated across race, age brackets, and while it has not been without challenges the experiences have left me stronger overall. The only class of people I seem to have a problem with and I can't shake...is the teenage black males. It's not a sex thing, I'm just saying that with the open mind I have, this group scares me. Some have the radical mindset, others I've run into were the classic stereotypes with the drugs and guns and this is the only group of people I find myself blocking off. But beyond that I don't really look at things like I used to. Anything goes, anything is a possiblity. Being Bi has opened doors for me with people I would have never met. In fact my coming to acceptance with this part of myself is one of the key things that led me to find BM. One self-discovery led to another, then more exploring, and I end up at BM because of one of those discoveries.

Sorry for the thread drift but the post just got me thinking and well...what you see is what you get.

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 9:48 pm

The only class of people I seem to have a problem with and I can't shake...is the teenage black males. It's not a sex thing, I'm just saying that with the open mind I have, this group scares me. Some have the radical mindset, others I've run into were the classic stereotypes with the drugs and guns and this is the only group of people I find myself blocking off.

Don't feel alone......

I think I'm 42-43 I can't remember but it seems like I'm in a time warp and somewhere I missed out on the rap thing. But I tell you I like house, classical, jazzz, jazz rock, jazz fusion, acid jazz, rave, techno, funk....but some of this other stuff is just as scarey as these cats you speak of. what's even scareyer is that there is not much anybody can do about them. That is a fuck up made from some fucked up people from a long time ago. wish I could fix it some how.

Kinetic II · Post by **Kinetic II** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 10:10 pm

I knew when I posted that one section would likely end up in a quote or clip. To make sure it's clear, the only ones in this group that scare me are the few who take the "gangsta" lifestyle a bit too far. If there are guns involved, that is what I don't like. Otherwise my mind is open and the stereotype screeches to a halt. It's a daily work in progress especially here in the Midwest.

Anyway if someone reads the post and has questions on where I stand or what I mean, by all means PM me. Thanks.

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 10:13 pm

Nope I understand perfectly.

I gues your not talking to me........

A friend and I in Topeka had a chance to see some scarey shit .

Sometimes though scarey people come in all kinds of ways. he and i had a scarey time when i was there. We ran into some situations on 2 occasions. One black situation and one white situation.

i'm not gonna get into the story now. Too long, Just wanted to say they were both gun situations and my friend is also black and a burner. just to give you an idea.

Topeka can be scarey. especially when it's hot.

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 10:26 pm

What's Ironic is as we speak, On South park the topic of the day is homosexuallity.

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Sat Oct 18, 2003 10:40 pm

poor Kinetic II. I think he got scared off.

Hope not.

Kinetic II · Post by **Kinetic II** » Sun Oct 19, 2003 12:18 am

No, it's just late and I have to work in the morning. Plus I just finished setting up a balky iPAQ. What a pain in the rear. Anyway I'm too tired to get into a discussion beyond this.

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sun Oct 19, 2003 1:37 am

don't get it..

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Sun Oct 19, 2003 1:39 am

melissa wrote:don't get it..

don't get what?

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Sun Oct 19, 2003 1:42 am

the picture's add up to something but I can't figure out what. Over-analyzing maybe, but i think there is more than the labia tells.

DE FACTO · Post by **DE FACTO** » Sun Oct 19, 2003 1:44 am

melissa wrote:the picture's add up to something but I can't figure out what. Over-analyzing maybe, but i think there is more than the labia tells.

I think your getting it, kinda.
But sometimes it helps to start at the beginning.