Super Virgin needs advice!

[Riproarious]

I will be a 2009 BM virgin in a couple ways, and I'm looking to pop my cherries. Going to BM for the first time in itself will be disorienting, I'm sure. I will let myself be guided by intuition for the most part...But I would like to experience sexual deviancy. (deviant in the most positive, exciting and respectful way) What or how should I approach BM to fulfill these experiences? :D

[Sham]

I will be a 2009 BM virgin in a couple ways, and I'm looking to pop my cherries. Going to BM for the first time in itself will be disorienting, I'm sure. I will let myself be guided by intuition for the most part...But I would like to experience sexual deviancy. (deviant in the most positive, exciting and respectful way) What or how should I approach BM to fulfill these experiences?

It's been said that you always find what you're looking for at Burning Man once you stop looking for it. If you come here looking for a wild sexual experience, then you're going to discover that Burning Man is something else altogether. It's NOT an orgy in the desert, and it's NOT and open sex party. It's more a bunch of dusty free spirits enjoying a week together.

If you put an ad on Craig's List, you can have a "diviant" at your door by mid morning. I am curious about your age and gender, as there are so few "Super Virgins" left in the world. Believe it or not, I was actually one myself way back when!

[AntiM]

... and the more expectations you have of the event, the more disappointed you will be. Guaranteed. Just a fucking dusty camping trip. Sure, there's some art and fire thrown in, but basically, you ARE the event.

[wedeliver]

I will be a 2009 BM virgin in a couple ways, and I'm looking to pop my cherries. Going to BM for the first time in itself will be disorienting, I'm sure. I will let myself be guided by intuition for the most part...But I would like to experience sexual deviancy. (deviant in the most positive, exciting and respectful way) What or how should I approach BM to fulfill these experiences?

It's been said that you always find what you're looking for at Burning Man once you stop looking for it. If you come here looking for a wild sexual experience, then you're going to discover that Burning Man is something else altogether. It's NOT an orgy in the desert, and it's NOT and open sex party. It's more a bunch of dusty free spirits enjoying a week together.

If you put an ad on Craig's List, you can have a "diviant" at your door by mid morning. I am curious about your age and gender, as there are so few "Super Virgins" left in the world. Believe it or not, I was actually one myself way back when!

But bring all your pornos, your whips and chains, lots of LUBE and condoms of course. Then maybe it won't be about what you can get, but what you can give.. (report to jiffy lube tuesday morning for abuse and the necessary training)(no, wait don't get anywhere near penetration village. They say once you go there you can never leave.

[Riproarious]

I will just go and be.
I will go and be intuitive.
I will go where I need to be.
But I'll be equipped, just in case. :wink:

[Ugly Dougly]

It's NOT an orgy in the desert, and it's NOT and open sex party.

You just don't get invited to the right parties.

[klondike_bar]

...but basically, you ARE the event.

especially for others hunting down gratutous love

treat it like any fun event. while long-standing relationships can, and have been, made, you are likely to lose your lover the next morning.

have fun, and remember to swing by my tent. :p

[Kwai Chang Caine]

I will just go and be.
I will go and be intuitive.
I will go where I need to be.
But I'll be equipped, just in case.

Then it will be the experience it is meant to be.....

Most years I have not even come close to anything sexual..... but some of my most amazing sexual experiences have been in BRC (those art structures on the open playa in a dust storm can be fun, and you often get caught, which is even more fun).


Every year is different and that's good. This is why I fail to understand people who say "BM is not what it used to be".

Who would want it to be?

[joemomma]

My first time, went with a BM veteran, and he told me......
Have no expectations, no plans, no desires.....
It was fabulous....
And remember, "no matter where you go. there you are."