Read my first post, does anyone here actually follow every single thing that essay says? No. And that's why no one understands my point of view.Da Mule wrote:Armand -
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I think the reason why people are reacting so strongly to your posts is the tone of your posts. Why are you out there professing this to us? What are you trying to achieve? Okay, maybe you think you've found something that's really cool and you want to share. I can understand.
Just ask me about cheez doodles.
But the thing is, what makes you think that your philosophy is going to work for anyone else? Has it occurred to you that it may be working so great because you might not have had the difficult experiences yet that many of the older folks posting here have? Okay, sure you've had some difficult experiences. But seriously dude - how do you face the kids in the hospital ward that someone mentioned earlier? I don't think you responded to that. And that's wise. Because there ARE limits to your philosophy. I think that folks are just trying to warn you of that. In the same way that you want to share this cool thing that you've learned. Others want to share with you that sometimes life SUCKS and shit happens that is TOTALLY and COMPLETELY our of your control.
I don't know ass, but I know that I don't. You may want to leave some room in your philosophy to be an ass.
Sorry I know all of my talk might sound like I'm some cocky kid but the reality is there is not one single person in my life that can say anything bad about me. And yes, shit still does happen to me, its just a matter of how you look at it, and how you can make the best of it. Take my getting pulled over about an hour ago as an example. I felt like total shit because I knew he caught me in a complete oversteer, but in the end its going to work out for me.
:shrugs: I think I'm done. I've encountered the same problem with people I try to help in my daily life. They just think I'm talking out of my ass and trying to impose on them rather than help, that's where I just leave them alone. I guess I'll do the same here.


