my wife thinks we should go next year

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my wife thinks we should go next year

Post by Jerky » Thu Sep 03, 2009 10:59 pm

Hello all Im a newbie and have been to alot of festivals dead, phish and so on.My wife has talked about this fest so i had to check what its about.Should i be worried? its all how open minded a person can be she says.I cant imagine her breaking loseand doing something i hear u need rules if u go. where to begin. some one please help me out
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Re: my wife thinks we should go next year

Post by unjonharley » Fri Sep 04, 2009 6:30 am

Jerky wrote:Hello all Im a newbie and have been to alot of festivals dead, phish and so on.My wife has talked about this fest so i had to check what its about.Should i be worried? its all how open minded a person can be she says.I cant imagine her breaking loseand doing something i hear u need rules if u go. where to begin. some one please help me out
thanks



if she's hot, send her and you stay home.. or read the burning man main page.. this is no place like you have been before.. so you have no referance point..

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Post by Fire_Moose » Fri Sep 04, 2009 7:24 am

yup pretty much. There is a part in the survival guide about relationships you should prolly take a look at. you got over a year to prep so get cracking ;)
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Post by Nitevenus » Fri Sep 04, 2009 2:32 pm

You two need to read about, talk about and discover what it is you are wanting to participate in. There is open nudity and plenty of opportunity for most things sensual or sexual, chemically enhanced or not. Not everyone goes to this festival for sex <insert gasp> ;) but it is there. Any rules, that you speak of, are your own. Just like any big party......something is going on, whether you choose to particate is up to you.

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Post by Jerky » Sat Sep 05, 2009 4:02 am

Thanks everyone.

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Post by Apollonaris Zeus » Sat Sep 05, 2009 9:28 am

it all about gifting, sharing and open sexual relationships.

Saying NO to a sexual advancement is a no, no.

If someone comes up to you or your wife or both of you and says I want to fuck you, you are obligated.

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Post by TomServo » Sat Sep 05, 2009 12:53 pm

My wife wanted to go and I didnt. Turns out I loved it, and she hated it. And I didn't even have sex at burning man till after we split.
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Post by Ugly Dougly » Tue Sep 29, 2009 10:54 am

Don't let her go around topless. This is a sure sign of promiscuity.

Unless you're into swingin'.

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Post by oneeyeddick » Tue Sep 29, 2009 11:16 am

There is some swingin' going on During the Critical Dicks march.
We have an obligation to make space for everyone, we have no obligation to make that space pleasant.

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Post by Ugly Dougly » Tue Sep 29, 2009 12:08 pm

Oh, she'd like that. Be sure to take her to see that. :oops:

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Post by unjonharley » Tue Sep 29, 2009 12:22 pm

Ugly Dougly wrote:Don't let her go around topless. This is a sure sign of promiscuity.

Unless you're into swingin'.
Knock it off Ugly,, I want to see this in the buff.. I need something new to choke my chicken ..

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Post by Ugly Dougly » Tue Sep 29, 2009 2:08 pm

Hey now, hey now. ;)

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