Naked Old and Unattractive people on the playa?

[theCryptofishist]

Though I don't rule out that's there a possibility that one day I might find myelf attracted to men...

I don't know what was said to illicit this response, and I'm certain that sexuality is way more complicated than any of us ever expect, but I gotta say that statements like the one that I think inspired that are more ideological than accurate.

[FaeTora]

Yeah, Texas has been having a hard time with that law because it lets what looks like gay marriages and denies what looks like heterosexual marriage. Then again that depends on your perspective whether or not you see either one as gay or heterosexual marriage. Personally I think the government has bigger fish to fry than two consenting adults wanting to commit to each other.

One of my exes is a FtM. We were together for three years, a year and a half of transition, injections, and surgery. I hear he married his girlfriend. Not sure if he did it in Texas or not or if it is or is not recognized by Texas. But I know for awhile, you could marry in another state and Texas, though it says they won't recognize it, did. Just like in some districts it is easier to have the gender and name on your ID changed than in others. But there are entire websites dedicated to that and I'm going off topic.

[C.f.M.]

I'm going off topic.

I wouldn't expect anything else!

I was just thinking earlier today, in a thread, how much I enjoy the freedom we have to drift OT and have fun.

[theCryptofishist]

Well, at least you are giving me a warm glowing feeling as I remember Scott's interest in f2ms.

[peacefulhuman]

I'm pomosexual.

I'm a geriophobe

Two words I have never heard before, and which I like immensely. Wow, it's true you really do learn something new every day - thanks guys!

[VeganChoirGirl]

Though I don't rule out that's there a possibility that one day I might find myelf attracted to men

This is one of the reasons I am adamantly opposed to defining sexual identity in such limited terms as gay/straight/bisexual. In addition, the confusion of defining is further exacerbated by people who are f2m, m2f, sexually ambiguous, gender bending, or any other of the multitudes of ways we express self/sex/gender as humans. I am attracted to people, men, women, undefined…there can be love and lust between any two people is the chemistry is right.

For instance, I watched two of my wonderful friends get married last summer. My friend liz, a sef proclaimed womyn, raging liberal, dyke, lesbian, feminist, and gender bender stood beneath a chupah across from her now husband eric, a fruity, feminine, raver boy and assistant manager of a retail store. They fell in love and built a chemistry, not based on gender or sexual identity, but attraction to a single person, in a single moment. They’re happier than most people I know because they were true to themselves and didn’t let anything else get in the way.

Ok…getting off my soap box…

I just wanted to acknowledge the validity of FT’s statement. :hug

[C.f.M.]

Though I don't rule out that's there a possibility that one day I might find myelf attracted to men

This is one of the reasons I am adamantly opposed to defining sexual identity in such limited terms as gay/straight/bisexual. In addition, the confusion of defining is further exacerbated by people who are f2m, m2f, sexually ambiguous, gender bending, or any other of the multitudes of ways we express self/sex/gender as humans. I am attracted to people, men, women, undefined…there can be love and lust between any two people is the chemistry is right.

For instance, I watched two of my wonderful friends get married last summer. My friend liz, a sef proclaimed womyn, raging liberal, dyke, lesbian, feminist, and gender bender stood beneath a chupah across from her now husband eric, a fruity, feminine, raver boy and assistant manager of a retail store. They fell in love and built a chemistry, not based on gender or sexual identity, but attraction to a single person, in a single moment. They’re happier than most people I know because they were true to themselves and didn’t let anything else get in the way.

Ok…getting off my soap box…

I just wanted to acknowledge the validity of FT’s statement. :hug

That's why I'm pomosexual...ahahahahahaha...(it's a label for people who refuse to be labeled). Post Modern-sexual.

[Token]

Fuck, on my tiny iPhone screen it looked like:

Pornosexual

Not some artsy fartsy liberal beatnik post modern soufflé.

*sigh*

[C.f.M.]

Fuck, on my tiny iPhone screen it looked like:

Pornosexual

Not some artsy fartsy liberal beatnik post modern soufflé.

*sigh*

/flips hair

It's a PORTMANTEAU, thankyouverymuch.

[VeganChoirGirl]

Awesome C.F.M.

[ygmir]

who then, is "Newmansexual"?

[LeChatNoir]

It's a PORTMANTEAU, thankyouverymuch.

Kind of like a "smoosh".

[Trishntek]

C.f.M wrote:

That's why I'm pomosexual...ahahahahahaha...(it's a label for people who refuse to be labeled). Post Modern-sexual.

Finally! A kindred spirit who even has a label for being not labeled! I knew there was something about you the moment I ummmm virtually knew you!

[FaeTora]

Today turned into a day of talking about sexuality. First this then my nephew called and asked me when and how I knew I was gay. This of course led to the real reason he called, a concern/questioning of his own sexuality. I told his the truth. Its all a specrum, find where you are happy. You only get this one life, there is no point in being unhappy.

[Elderberry]

And I almost wasn't going to click on this thread!



JK

[hollywallydoodle]

And I almost wasn't going to click on this thread!



JK

HA me too! and now it's my favorite.

the month before the burn i stay up 'til 4am every night reading eplaya—and i CANNOT STOP!

[FaeTora]

holly, you should come to bar2. i am usually there late.

[hollywallydoodle]

holly, you should come to bar2. i am usually there late.

hello there. bar2…bar2…

irl / eplaya / playa (i never seem to know where things are). i just wander through life laughing…

[Eric]

Bar2

[hollywallydoodle]

well thank you neighbor! aren't you kind to use use one of your sparse little posts to give me directions.

was that you in '08 that pointed me toward my camp while i was riding around with melting ice for 45 minutes?

[C.f.M.]

who then, is "Newmansexual"?

Eh, I suppose I'm a little Newmansexual.


But on the spectrum, definitely more of a Brandosexual.

[ygmir]

I was hoping someone would get it............I should know, CFM, you'd get old actors and sexual innuendo, no matter how obtuse.

[C.f.M.]

I was hoping someone would get it............I should know, CFM, you'd get old actors and sexual innuendo, no matter how obtuse.

Any time, sugar pie...

[ygmir]

I was hoping someone would get it............I should know, CFM, you'd get old actors and sexual innuendo, no matter how obtuse.

Any time, sugar pie...

see, see, that's what I mean.........you, are a goddess.

[C.f.M.]

Nah, I was just born 80 years old.

[FaeTora]

I love older films. This new crisp screen is bull. To each their own but film has grain and its something I always loved about film. ::sighs:: oh well.

[VeganChoirGirl]

All good choices. I always had it bad for H.B. but...Lauren Bacall...she was so beautiful it hurt.

[Fire_Moose]

I don't know much past Sue Lyon....

[Eric]

Gilbert Roland.

*purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr*

[Boijoy]

ohhh Ya'll are gonna make me do it.. aren't ya?
R.I.P. sexy.