Virgin never been..sexually shy but willing.

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Virgin never been..sexually shy but willing.

Post by spotter1 » Fri Aug 27, 2010 12:50 pm

I am a straight male virgin who loves women. I am not prepared for BM this year but will go next year. I do drink moderately and can cut loose. I am sexually shy and need some guidance and expanding of my horizons and get freed up. Can someone give me some direction as to what I can experience at BM and how to prepare? I would love to hook up with some experienced people for next year.

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Post by Nitevenus » Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:03 pm

Wow, what an intro. Dare I ask that you are thinking that this is just a sexual experience event? Yes, there are plenty of possibilities for that but have you been reading anything at all about what burning man is?

Keep reading here and the website, especially the blog area as there are daily posts about what is going on out there.

And welcome, we all love virgins!

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Post by mudpuppy000 » Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:11 pm

Ohh silly trolls!

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Post by spotter1 » Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:20 pm

[quote="Nitevenus"]Wow, what an intro. Dare I ask that you are thinking that this is just a sexual experience event? Yes, there are plenty of possibilities for that but have you been reading anything at all about what burning man is?

Keep reading here and the website, especially the blog area as there are daily posts about what is going on out there.

And welcome, we all love virgins![/quote]
Thanks, I am reading and I do get pretty much the whole BM experience and I plan on participating in as much as I can. However I am unprepared for this year and after reading quite a bit on many different pages the sexual experiences/encounters seem to be a commonly discussed subject of BM. I am not going just for the sexual experience but I am at a point in my life that being more free in that area would be liberating to me, getting out of my old self. Just need some help thats all..and I ain't no Troll.

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Post by Sham » Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:33 pm

Here is a link you may be looking for.
http://www.hedonismresorts.com/hedonism-ii.asp
Burning Man is a counter culture arts festival. You probably won't be getting laid there. If you do somehow hook up, the dust will be rather abrasive.

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Post by dinks » Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:38 pm

Welcome to the board. keep reading about burning man. I think you have the wrong image in your head of what it is.

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Post by Ugly Dougly » Fri Aug 27, 2010 2:03 pm

Stroll around the grounds until you feel at home.

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Post by theCryptofishist » Fri Aug 27, 2010 2:25 pm

Single straight men are unlikely to get "lucky" simply as a numbers game. (They out number the queer men, the queer women and straight women.)
Also, this crowd can smell desparation.
Attend if you are interested in everything else. Educate yourself as to the sexual realities here, from hook-ups to roofies. Be prepared (safer sex supplies) but have no expectations. There are certainly camps with sexual expression on the menu, and the general holiday mood and openness of the city to sexual expression means that a lot of women are expressing sensual selves, but they may not want to have sex with you.
There are avenues to express sexuality somewhere in your area. Perhaps exploring there will allow you to concentrate on one thing at a time.
~shrug~
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Post by bluesbob » Fri Aug 27, 2010 3:50 pm

One word...hookers.

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Post by Homiesinheaven » Fri Aug 27, 2010 3:57 pm

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Post by mudpuppy000 » Fri Aug 27, 2010 4:03 pm

Why go all the way out there to look for sex? Just go to a bar or something. There's no sex fairy at burning man.

(can't wait for the responses to that :D)

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Post by Eric » Fri Aug 27, 2010 6:21 pm

mudpuppy000 wrote:There's no sex fairy at burning man.

(can't wait for the responses to that :D)
I, for one, will let it pass.

Mainly because my brain is too fried with the final push before leaving.
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Post by gyre » Fri Aug 27, 2010 6:33 pm

Well, there is sex out there.
And it isn't that bad being a straight male out there.

But you may find yourself turning it down to do something else.
All depends on timing.

There's a lot of choice out there.

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