Rest In Peace

lucky420 · Post by **lucky420** » Mon May 09, 2011 12:46 pm

big squeezing hugs to UD, NT and AntiM...hope things are a little better for you all today

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Tue May 10, 2011 6:55 pm

As of 9:15 a.m. today, my beautiful cat Sissypuss passed away. We shared 18 years together. She was the most loving and sweet kitty in the world.

She loved everyone. My heart aches for her, but I know she's no longer in pain. People say cats have no feelings or are aloof. But they hadn't met Sissypuss. She was my most human kitty. When I was sad or would cry, she was right by my side, purring (and she was a loud purrer) and snuggled up next to me. Or when I was happy or laughing, she'd come over and get playful with me.

Right now the pain is too much for me.

May God take her into his arms and keep her safe for me.

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Tue May 10, 2011 6:57 pm

ygmir · Post by **ygmir** » Tue May 10, 2011 7:14 pm

dang dang dang.......MA.......so sorry for your loss.

Forever a kitten,
may she have fields to bound through,
mice to chase,
a warm saucer of milk
and a deserving lap,

on the other side.

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Tue May 10, 2011 7:19 pm

ygmir wrote:dang dang dang.......MA.......so sorry for your loss.

Forever a kitten,
may she have fields to bound through,
mice to chase,
a warm saucer of milk
and a deserving lap,

on the other side.

thank you so much Yg. Anyone who has had a pet and has lost them knows how it feels. I loved her so much. When I found her I needed her as much as she needed me. She was not just a pet, but a family member. I get her ashes by the end of the week.

TomServo · Post by **TomServo** » Tue May 10, 2011 7:28 pm

I'm soo sorry for your loss maryanimal. I know how it can tear a person up, to see their little pals go. The important thing is, you were there when she needed you. And, I'm sure she had a happier life because you were a part of it!

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Tue May 10, 2011 7:37 pm

TomServo wrote:I'm soo sorry for your loss maryanimal. I know how it can tear a person up, to see their little pals go. The important thing is, you were there when she needed you. And, I'm sure she had a happier life because you were a part of it!

And my life was made happier by her being in it. Thank you Tom.

geospyder · Post by **geospyder** » Tue May 10, 2011 8:10 pm

(((((MA)))))

ibdave · Post by **ibdave** » Tue May 10, 2011 9:19 pm

{{{{{{{MA}}}}}}}

jella · Post by **jella** » Tue May 10, 2011 10:26 pm

((Mary Animal))
They only seem aloof to throw you off their diabolical sneek up on you from behind when your not looking plans geniuos pure geniuos
Hope she has all Yggy said and more

Ugly Dougly · Post by **Ugly Dougly** » Tue May 10, 2011 11:14 pm

Hugz, I don't know what I would do without my critter.

Post by **AntiM** » Wed May 11, 2011 1:48 am

Ah dang, MA, Hugs.It is so hard when they leave us. I still miss my Jake, and he's been gone for years. Hugging my Harry Buttlicker in memory of your beloved Sissypuss right now. (Harry is confused, but purring).

unjonharley · Post by **unjonharley** » Wed May 11, 2011 7:17 am

ibdave wrote: {{{{{{{MA}}}}}}}

+1 from ujh

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Wed May 11, 2011 10:25 pm

Thank you everyone. Your caring thoughts ake me realize what a wonderful family of people you are. I know one day I won't have all this pain and sadness. But it's good to know I have all of you to help me cope.

My undying love to all of you.

Mary Ann

Ugly Dougly · Post by **Ugly Dougly** » Fri May 20, 2011 12:16 pm

Randy "Macho Man" Savage - November 15, 1952 â€“ May 20, 2011

TomServo · Post by **TomServo** » Fri May 20, 2011 12:34 pm

SlimJims just wont taste the same.

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Fri May 20, 2011 10:57 pm

What a shame. I liked Randy Savage. Every time he talked (when he was in character) He always sounded like he had to take a dump. But, maya he rest in peace.

goathead · Post by **goathead** » Mon May 23, 2011 8:58 am

One of my Hero's in my life passed away yesterday.

My Uncle Jack
Him and my Aunt Eleanor have been married 73 years.
I have never known people as kind and happy as them.

Even just thinking about his passing brings a smile to my face because all I can think of is a life well lived.

A very special man, a very special couple.

ygmir · Post by **ygmir** » Mon May 23, 2011 9:02 am

RIP for sure, GH................

Post by **AntiM** » Mon May 23, 2011 12:38 pm

Fair winds and following seas, Uncle Jack.

goathead · Post by **goathead** » Mon May 23, 2011 1:26 pm

Was just thinking about him.

If we where in New Orleans there would be no dirge played going to the cemetarty.
It would be the upbeat and lively music both ways.
He would have enjoyed that.
With the families getting together and the kids playing.
It is a happy time, to smile and remember.

gerlachedNloaded · Post by **gerlachedNloaded** » Thu May 26, 2011 6:04 am

((GH))

Jstrat · Post by **Jstrat** » Thu May 26, 2011 6:31 am

Hi all,

While I have suffered a number of lost loved ones, as many of us have, there is one I have not worked through. I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions.

I traveled the country with a friend many years ago, and we ended up sharing a place in California for a while after the trip. He moved back east when his father had heart trouble, and he never came back. I stayed on the west coast.

Years later, at a wedding, someone mentioned his death. No one told me when it happened. I didn't get to attend the funeral. It was all over by the time I found out from an offhand comment someone made about missing Craig since his passing. Apparently it was a car accident, and his was the only car. Not sure if they ever found out what happened.

So... it was sudden to me, and jarring, and I never really dealt with it. Well, I wrote about it. That helped. But I don't know. There are just all these great memories, then a sudden, aching void.

Thank you,

Jeff

theCryptofishist · Post by **theCryptofishist** » Thu May 26, 2011 9:32 am

Burn something at the temple (that's going to be a first responce from many people here, anyway.) Picture of a car, or a landscape you went through together or of your old house. Artwork, maybe. A letter.
Have a funeral for no body and one mourner. Meditation. On playa or off. Scatter rose petals. Look inside and see what makes sense to you, but maybe these ideas will get you to start thinking.

Jstrat · Post by **Jstrat** » Thu May 26, 2011 8:31 pm

That might be good, yeah. I think I can find some things. Or make some things. Thank you.

FaeTora · Post by **FaeTora** » Thu May 26, 2011 8:53 pm

Jeff,

I am sorry for your loss. My mother died almost two years ago. Right after telling me i needed to go to BM and buying me my first even burn event ticket which was to BRC. I was fortunate that I was allotted a certain portion of her ashes. I took them to the temple and I watched them burn Sunday. For me it was too soon. She died early June and the Temple burned early September. I cried a lot. And even with it, it took me awhile to get over it.

I know its harder without anything tangible to let go of, to send your goodbyes to, and the loss of those moments of mourning. But know the Temple will carry you worries and loves ones. Know we are all here to support you and offer hugs and laughter whenever we can. As snarky as we can be to each other, these are the kindest, sweetest, most remarkable people you can ever have the pleasure of meeting.

My condolences and let me know if I can be of any help.

FaeTora

ibdave · Post by **ibdave** » Thu May 26, 2011 10:22 pm

Jstrat wrote:That might be good, yeah. I think I can find some things. Or make some things. Thank you.

Jeff, The Temple will move you in many ways. I hope you find what you need...

We always bring color packs of sharpies and place them around for those who need them....

Post by **Sham** » Fri May 27, 2011 1:33 am

Jeff, a lot of people write nice long letters to their lost friends and relatives and pin that letter up at the temple for deliver on the night of the temple burn. It gives you a chance to say everything you wish to say to your friend, and for most people it helps with the closure they need.

Today I had a visit from a long time friend who informed me that he has only 3 to 6 months to live due to a series of brain tumors. He was more matter of fact about it than me. He said he hopes to get to see his wife again when he goes. She died very young from a stroke and he never got over the loss.

Life can be very painful at times, but we must keep on chuggin'.

Roger Dodger · Post by **Roger Dodger** » Fri May 27, 2011 1:36 am

Shambala wrote:Jeff, a lot of people write nice long letters to their lost friends and relatives and pin that letter up at the temple for deliver on the night of the temple burn. It gives you a chance to say everything you wish to say to your friend, and for most people it helps with the closure they need.

Today I had a visit from a long time friend who informed me that he has only 3 to 6 months to live due to a series of brain tumors. He was more matter of fact about it than me. He said he hopes to get to see his wife again when he goes. She died very young from a stroke and he never got over the loss.

Life can be very painful at times, but we must keep on chuggin'.

+ 100000

Jstrat · Post by **Jstrat** » Fri May 27, 2011 2:53 am

Thank you, FaeTora, and I'm so sorry for your loss, as well. The Temple sounds healing. I think I will bring a poem I wrote about him.

Thank you ibdave, Shambala, and Roger Dodger. And I am sorry to hear about your friend, Shambala. And yes, we must.

Rest In Peace

Lost Friend