Suicidal Tendencies

Elliot · Post by **Elliot** » Thu Dec 29, 2011 10:21 am

ygmir wrote:I purposely left "old" out, Elltiot:
I enjoy women, of all ages. All beautiful, in some way.

For sure! I was referring to the men -- old farts like me. (I can say that, because I'm older than Ygmir.)

ygmir · Post by **ygmir** » Thu Dec 29, 2011 10:45 am

Elliot wrote:
ygmir wrote:I purposely left "old" out, Elltiot:
I enjoy women, of all ages. All beautiful, in some way.
For sure! I was referring to the men -- old farts like me. (I can say that, because I'm older than Ygmir.)

But, taken in the context of "opposites", using "old" in your "inverse dream hypothesis", it would imply, only wanting sex with young women.
I did not want to imply any such thoughts, as relates to me.

lucky420 · Post by **lucky420** » Thu Dec 29, 2011 10:56 am

ygmir wrote:
I purposely left "old" out, Elltiot:
I enjoy women, of all ages. All beautiful, in some way.

***swoon****

Elliot · Post by **Elliot** » Thu Dec 29, 2011 11:08 am

ygmir wrote:But, taken in the context of "opposites", using "old" in your "inverse dream hypothesis", it would imply....

Touche. I bow to the master of linguistic analysis.

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Thu Dec 29, 2011 7:22 pm

Yggy, you silver-tongued devil!

ibdave · Post by **ibdave** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 9:40 am

maryanimal wrote:Yggy, you silver-tongued devil!

lot of moss growing on that tongue..

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 9:51 am

Doesn't moss grow in moist warm places?

goathead · Post by **goathead** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 9:54 am

SNORT

blow coffee on screen....

Elliot · Post by **Elliot** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 9:57 am

Announcement:
Those of us who are not going elsewhere for New Year's Eve will be ringing in the new year on the Da Bar #3 thread. Please join us there.
It being a new year, newcomers are specially invited!

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 9:58 am

*hands goathead a towel *

ygmir · Post by **ygmir** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 2:18 pm

ibdave wrote:
maryanimal wrote:Yggy, you silver-tongued devil!
lot of moss growing on that tongue..

that's just scrape marks from licking my eyebrows while wearing glasses.

Elliot · Post by **Elliot** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 4:36 pm

Once again, the Enterprise D computer:
Warning. Thread drift in progress. Warning. Thread drift in progress. Core breach in 30 minutes.

gyre · Post by **gyre** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 4:47 pm

I'm on a forum where they don't even count posts they don't think are useful.

'+1' gets a reprimand and delete.

ibdave · Post by **ibdave** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 11:20 pm

ygmir wrote:
ibdave wrote:
maryanimal wrote:Yggy, you silver-tongued devil!
lot of moss growing on that tongue..
that's just scrape marks from licking my eyebrows while wearing glasses.

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ibdave · Post by **ibdave** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 11:29 pm

gyre wrote:I'm on a forum where they don't even count posts they don't think are useful.

biting lip... biting lip....

gyre · Post by **gyre** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 11:59 pm

Ah, you got nothing.

geekster · Post by **geekster** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 2:05 am

My kids' uncle, their Mom's brother, my brother-in-law decided there was no silver bullet to solve his problem with depression so he used a lead one last night. Successful lawyer, father of two young children (elementary school), no warning. Just "boom". He actually made it into the parking lot of an "acute crises center", but never went inside. He said in letters he mailed to family members that it would only prolong the agony. His kids are going to hate Christmas for the rest of their lives, probably.

Post by **AntiM** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:33 am

Damn, Geekster, hugs, and hug those kids a lot. Damn.

ygmir · Post by **ygmir** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:54 am

awe crap, Geekster........so, so sorry for the kids, and the rest of the family...........so sorry..............

ygmir · Post by **ygmir** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:55 am

ibdave wrote:
gyre wrote:I'm on a forum where they don't even count posts they don't think are useful.

biting lip... biting lip....

+1

gyre · Post by **gyre** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:01 am

ygmir wrote:
+1

Irony.

Well done

ygmir · Post by **ygmir** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:12 am

gyre wrote:
ygmir wrote:
+1
Irony.

Well done

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Elliot · Post by **Elliot** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 9:26 am

geekster wrote: He said... (...an acute crisis center...) ...would only prolong the agony.

This phenomenon would seem to be a key obstacle to prevention/intervention.

Sounds to me like he drove to that facility only to aid in the disposal of his body. Other victims have died outside hospitals and funeral parlors. Minimize the trauma for the family. I've had the same idea.

Geekster, please accept my condolences.

geekster · Post by **geekster** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 9:54 am

Sounds to me like he drove to that facility only to aid in the disposal of his body.

He didn't do himself in there. Apparently he drove there some time before he shot himself because he talked about it in letters he mailed to his wife, mother, and siblings. Apparently he wanted them to know that he had considered but rejected the idea. What he did was check in to a hotel then sat down at the curb in the parking lot next to his car and did it there.

He created a facebook page a few days before, friended most of the family, then left one single posting right before he did it that simply said "I love you all" and that was it. This wasn't something that was spur of the moment. It was premeditated. Apparently he had been carrying on an affair for 15 years with a high-school sweetheart he had first dated when he was 14. I guess that can cause stress in one's life. She apparently broke things off with him and that was the trigger but nobody is really going to know the whole story, I don't think.

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 5:17 pm

I'm so sorry geekster. Take care of your your wife and SIL. They'll need you more than ever at this time. hug the smalls one tight for me.

maryanimal · Post by **maryanimal** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 11:51 pm

*Walks in...turns the light on and looks around, sits on a folding chair*

I'm happy it's quiet in here.

*get's up, walks way, turns around to look one more time, flips light off. walks out and locks door*

ibdave · Post by **ibdave** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 3:13 am

ygmir wrote:
ibdave wrote:
gyre wrote:I'm on a forum where they don't even count posts they don't think are useful.

biting lip... biting lip....
+1

zoom zoom... again

ibdave · Post by **ibdave** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 3:16 am

geekster, so sorry......

Elliot · Post by **Elliot** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 9:54 pm

Nine days without a post -- mental healthiness has broken out all over the land!

About that business of dreams.
I'm reading a novel where the protagonist suffers from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and he talks of sweating profusely during nightmares.
And earlier, somewhere else (non-fiction), I've read that we do not remember the many dreams we have while we sleep; but only the last one, the one that is still more-or-less running when we wake up.
Third, I used to find myself soaked in sweat in the middle of the night, quite often. For some time -- years -- it was routine for me to change my shirt and pillow in the middle of the night.
Finally, there was the recent dream, out of the blue, where I killed my father.

Putting these four items together, it occurs to me that I may have had a lot of narsty dreams that I do not remember. I used to think of the sweating as a result of temperature changes in the house; the number of blankets I had over me, and maybe kicked off me; that sort of thing. Now I'm not so sure. Considering how close I have been to Intolerable Desperation, maybe years of "secret" nightmares would explain some things? Is this plausible?

Thoughts? Knowledge?

gyre · Post by **gyre** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 10:00 pm

Maybe?

I sleep cold, but often wake up too hot, and I don't think that usually relates to dreams, just comfort.

But it sounds like you're talking about a more dramatic experience.

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