Lydia... after two divorce proceedings which took a heck of a lot out of me... i can safely say, there is a silver lining to what seems an unbelieveably large dark cloud.... hang in there, chin up, buy more mixers... and keep bugging the fuck out of cats.Lydia Love wrote:thanks y'all.
when next we meet in flesh-space every person who hugs me gets two back...
the virtual hugs are greatly appreciated but it's just not the same as having someone's arms wrapped 'round ya.
I'm gonna go bug the fuck out of my cats now.
Fuck!
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Lydia wrote:
By the way, buggering cats is no way to go... believe me, I've tried it. It's painful, and the cat doesn't usually care for it, either. Try sheep.
Lydia... a bunch of hugs at ya'! Been there, done that, still have the scars, although I think I've lost the paperwork. Divorce is like major fucking surgery... a large part of you is removed and it takes a while to recover....thanks y'all.
when next we meet in flesh-space every person who hugs me gets two back...
the virtual hugs are greatly appreciated but it's just not the same as having someone's arms wrapped 'round ya.
I'm gonna go bug the fuck out of my cats now.
By the way, buggering cats is no way to go... believe me, I've tried it. It's painful, and the cat doesn't usually care for it, either. Try sheep.
The revolutionary does not grow up because he cannot grow, while the creative individual cannot grow up because he keeps growing ~~ Eric Hoffer
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i could tell you the fuckin' lecture stuff - that one person doesn't make a relationship alone, that packing is good for you cause you get rid of shit and find old treasures, and that the future holds you, and us, closer together, growing and laughing and going through all sorts of shit - together.uber fabulous Lydia wrote:i could really fucking use a hug.
i have a serious case of the blues, feelings of failure over the marriage i just could not manage to save, having to pack shit up, fear of what the future holds...
and i'm out of mixers.
fuck.
but you probably don't need to hear it.
lots of love to you, Lydia.
get your ass down here, i need help drinking my wine.
and fuck, CALL me when you're down.
fuckin-a.
surlier than thou
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Fuck!
I'm behind on the fuck thread and just now caught up.
I know comming from me probally wont mean much but,
Lydia I've told you a bunch of times a long time ago that you are awsome.
You will be always awsome. Have you thought about or have you done any writing and art?
Anytime I've been down Art and writing (in my case writing music.) do it for me.
Plus you are really good at it.
Have'nt seen your site in awhile.
I'm behind on the fuck thread and just now caught up.
I know comming from me probally wont mean much but,
Lydia I've told you a bunch of times a long time ago that you are awsome.
You will be always awsome. Have you thought about or have you done any writing and art?
Anytime I've been down Art and writing (in my case writing music.) do it for me.
Plus you are really good at it.
Have'nt seen your site in awhile.
https://www.facebook.com/NeXTCODER
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Well shoot Lydia, I can't give you a hug or liquid libations- but I can send you a serenade from one of the masters of the stage itself. Hopefully it will cheer you up.
While not married, I'm currently going through something similiar (6yr relationship). The only saving grace is that it is mutual and we will be seperating as very close friends. But it sucks regardless of how it ends, as it is an ending. Thankfully, it is also a beginning, it just doesn't appear so at the time.
fuck
While not married, I'm currently going through something similiar (6yr relationship). The only saving grace is that it is mutual and we will be seperating as very close friends. But it sucks regardless of how it ends, as it is an ending. Thankfully, it is also a beginning, it just doesn't appear so at the time.
fuck
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Lydia - big hug Jeez, I feel like freakin' Barney the Dinosaur.
Obviously, you don't need any dime-store philosophy from me, but ... how do I put this? ... there are very, very few moments in one's life that no matter how painful they seem at the time do not move you further down the road to wisdom.
Maybe that makes sense. I hope so. We love you.
Obviously, you don't need any dime-store philosophy from me, but ... how do I put this? ... there are very, very few moments in one's life that no matter how painful they seem at the time do not move you further down the road to wisdom.
Maybe that makes sense. I hope so. We love you.
Buckethead, Buckethead you are like an Alien
Buckethead, Buckethead your head is like a dish
Buckethead, Buckethead sometimes you wear the Maybelline
Buckethead, Buckethead sometimes you're full of fish
Buckethead, Buckethead your head is like a dish
Buckethead, Buckethead sometimes you wear the Maybelline
Buckethead, Buckethead sometimes you're full of fish
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no no no,,, it's come to FUCKING Seattle, bring lot's of FUCKING booze and a FUCKING shrink.Rian Jackson wrote:ok, that's it.
Rob, come to seattle.
we'll all have a party for those of us who recently broke up/are breaking up....
changes........
p.s. please bring lots of booze. and, considering the head-layering, a shrink.
Fukin get it right please...
Fukin Hell!!!!
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1. FUCK
2. FUCK
(one for me and one for R-Jack since we both neglected to put a little fuck in our last posts)
2. FUCK
(one for me and one for R-Jack since we both neglected to put a little fuck in our last posts)
Buckethead, Buckethead you are like an Alien
Buckethead, Buckethead your head is like a dish
Buckethead, Buckethead sometimes you wear the Maybelline
Buckethead, Buckethead sometimes you're full of fish
Buckethead, Buckethead your head is like a dish
Buckethead, Buckethead sometimes you wear the Maybelline
Buckethead, Buckethead sometimes you're full of fish
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Okay... it looks like a breakup party is in order... If it's happening in Seattle, you guys set it up and let the Oregon Burners know when it will be... I am soooooo there. I've been waiting fifteen years for this one.
The revolutionary does not grow up because he cannot grow, while the creative individual cannot grow up because he keeps growing ~~ Eric Hoffer
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Lydia, based on my fucking experience there's a whole fucking load to mourn at the end of a marriage (including a solid sense of what the future holds). Mourning doesn't feel good, but you have a better shot at feeling good later when you do it. Of course, hugs belong in mourning, too!Rian Jackson wrote:i could tell you the fuckin' lecture stuff - that one person doesn't make a relationship alone, that packing is good for you cause you get rid of shit and find old treasures, and that the future holds you, and us, closer together, growing and laughing and going through all sorts of shit - together.uber fabulous Lydia wrote:i could really fucking use a hug.
i have a serious case of the blues, feelings of failure over the marriage i just could not manage to save, having to pack shit up, fear of what the future holds...
and i'm out of mixers.
fuck.
but you probably don't need to hear it.
lots of love to you, Lydia.
get your ass down here, i need help drinking my wine.
and fuck, CALL me when you're down.
fuckin-a.
So, HUGS to you! (and to think I missed a chance to give them in person!)
Oh- Rian fucking tried some of that stuff on me, too, but I notice she modified it after I pointed out that your own choices are part of what you mourn, even if you did everything right (and who does?). Did you notice she rocks?
Fucking lots to mourn, but a lot of things are better this way, even when I didn't want it to fucking happen.
Fuck.
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not fucking sure how to take that.CoworkerLurker wrote:
Oh- Rian fucking tried some of that stuff on me, too, but I notice she modified it after I pointed out that your own choices are part of what you mourn, even if you did everything right (and who does?). Did you notice she rocks?
Fucking lots to mourn, but a lot of things are better this way, even when I didn't want it to fucking happen.
Fuck.
i'm gonna go hide now.
p.s. thanks a fuckload, BHA. i know yo've got my back...
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Fuckin'-A-men to that! I'm with you step for step...stuart wrote:...I am no longer psychically fucking constipated...
it's gonna get better y'all. Trust me.
To the rest of youse guys: When Stuart starts showing this kind of optimism, you know something's up; follow his lead and watch for the key changes.
Stay on target... Stay on target...
lets back up a moment
WTFuck?
after hanging out with the braided one a bit it comes out that she perceived me as surly
now I hear some reference to my level of optimism
Surly?! Pessimistic?! Don't make me comb through all 1.3K+ of my posts here to demonstrate how fuckin cheery I am. I'm mister fucking polyanna.
WTFuck?
after hanging out with the braided one a bit it comes out that she perceived me as surly
now I hear some reference to my level of optimism
Surly?! Pessimistic?! Don't make me comb through all 1.3K+ of my posts here to demonstrate how fuckin cheery I am. I'm mister fucking polyanna.
call me baby
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No fucking offense intended- quite the opposite. (You're not getting all sensitive, are you?) Take it as this- first and foremost, you fucking rock. You are, as I've said, a solid voice of reason and support. You were that for me, you're that for Lydia. I disagreed with you on one point once, and whattya know, you subtly alter what you offer the next person in a similar situation. I'm impressed. And that one point had to do with a point I wanted to make, based on my experience.Rian Jackson wrote: not fucking sure how to take that.
i'm gonna go hide now.
AND NO FUCKING HIDING!
stuart wrote:lets back up a moment
WTFuck?
after hanging out with the braided one a bit it comes out that she perceived me as surly
now I hear some reference to my level of optimism
Surly?! Pessimistic?! Don't make me comb through all 1.3K+ of my posts here to demonstrate how fuckin cheery I am. I'm mister fucking polyanna.
Fukin hell, now thats funny!!!!
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a lack or fucking research? or lack of fucking credible cites?Rian Jackson wrote:Speaking of which, i'm no longer married as of today.
btw, has anyone else been misquoted a lot here?
it's happening tons... and on playa, too.
maybe it's the ministry of misinformation...
never fucking happens here, nosirreebob.
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Fuck Fuck (one for this post and one for the previous where i forgot).
I say fuck yes to being single too...
So, look, I'm gonna eventually be getting myself a fucking apartment, right? And I'll need a housewarming party... and probably a divorce party at about that time.
Announcements will be made later etc. etc... but of course, anyone who wanted to come to that partay would be welcome.
I say fuck yes to being single too...
So, look, I'm gonna eventually be getting myself a fucking apartment, right? And I'll need a housewarming party... and probably a divorce party at about that time.
Announcements will be made later etc. etc... but of course, anyone who wanted to come to that partay would be welcome.
It's all about the squirrels.