Actively look for your theme camp. Few if any theme camps are looking at eplaya. Look at the list of camps and contact them. There's a thread in the 2012 Theme Camp sub-forum.
This year is weird because of the ticket situation, but people are doing the final push and may not want to break in someone.
Also, consider camping by yourself. You'll have neighbors and in brc that translates into friends pretty easily.
The Lady with a Lamprey
"The powerful are exploiting people, art and ideas, and this leads to us plebes debating how to best ration ice.
Man, no wonder they always win....." Lonesomebri