So, which is it? From now on I'm gonna call it "monitoring" also.Trishntek wrote:Plus, there is always someone monitoring the play spaces for possible infringements of boundaries.....Wankers ARE NOT TOLERATED!
well said!!Radical Inclusion is for burning man, not for my body parts.
All the time? Should I consider it now or wait until July?Gonzo Frothwood wrote:You better be sure to wear a condom at all times cause these are high mileage models out there.
"When I'm eating out I wear one on my tongue!"maladroit wrote:All the time? Should I consider it now or wait until July?Gonzo Frothwood wrote:You better be sure to wear a condom at all times cause these are high mileage models out there.
does it change the tone of your yodeling?FIGJAM wrote:"When I'm eating out I wear one on my tongue!"maladroit wrote:All the time? Should I consider it now or wait until July?Gonzo Frothwood wrote:You better be sure to wear a condom at all times cause these are high mileage models out there.
All the time if you jizz in your pants!maladroit wrote:All the time? Should I consider it now or wait until July?Gonzo Frothwood wrote:You better be sure to wear a condom at all times cause these are high mileage models out there.
That's a solid point. There have been times where I've thought (no, saw) a guy was being way inappropriate/out of control/aggressive with a girl and even said something and he got pissed but she was more pissed. Guess she liked being the abusee. So if you have an issue, you have to speak up. Assuming you don't do it every time some guy tries to hit on you or asks to see your tits, and only when it's really over the line, then everyone in the area (guys and gals) will almost definitely drop whatever they are doing to assist.Major Krash wrote:plus, many guys hate this behavior, especially from people in their own camp (but also respect a woman's choice to date douche bags if that is what they want). If you do not publicly reject the advances, it is very hard to tell if we should intervene or not (a couple of big guys having an "intervention" with the douche bag can be effective, but under different circumstances THAT behavior can be almost as offensive).lucky420 wrote:Call the douchebag out on his bad behaviour. Call him out loudly while he is doing this. It might be a little embarrassing for you at the time but I bet it would be a helluva lot more embarrassing for him. And if he tries to laugh it off or get defensive you say in a very loud voice "HEY, I told YOU I don't like what you are attempting to do to ME. Knock it the fuck off right NOW"
As I said it may be a little embarrassing for you at the time to call attention to his boorishness, but do it because he will probably leave you alone from there on out and put every other woman on alert.
fuck him and his fucking creeper status
Not to be overly serious, but one thing I've noticed in life, and even talked to my wife about (she's a women's self defense instructor, among other things), is how women tend to not trust their intuition. Obviously this is an overgeneralization, but women seem to have better intuition than most men, BUT, society or men or whatever, have taught them to ignore it. "oh, you're just being paranoid" "he's just a little drunk, he won't do anything; he's harmless!".AntiM wrote:When I was in the Navy, I was stationed at Fort Gordon for a while for school. There was a large drill field, huge open grassy area surrounded by trees. They type of place that even though it is open and seemingly visible, you're invisible to the buildings because of distance and how the structures are screened by the vegetation. It was off limits after dark, there had been a number of rapes and assaults that year.
I was cutting across it at dusk, headed back to the barracks, in civilian clothes. I was hustling, it was getting dark. There were shortcut footpaths worn in the grass, so I was taking a diagonal. A man came up behind me, I guess he'd been in the trees to my right, angling to cross my path, but was moving much faster. He didn't pass me, but slowed and asked if I knew it was dangerous to be out on the drill field after dark. Yes, of course I knew. He didn't move along or ask me if I wanted an escort. He paced me. My inner alarm system went on high alert. He asked me what I would do if attacked and raped by someone out there. He specifically said "rape". I stopped in my tracks, looked him square in the eye and calmly said, "I'd kill him with my bare hands. I'd tear his throat out". The guy stammered a bit, oh okay, and took off like a shot.
It wasn't a normal encounter. He didn't act "properly". Maybe he was simply clueless, but I had a bad feeling, still do.
What makes this so memorable to me is it marks the first time I threatened a man, rather than being meek and easy-going. Prior to that moment, I'd been the go with the flow gal. Suddenly I was the kick ass woman.
Try it, you'll like it.
I was age 24 or so, about the age of many women attending B-Man for the first time. Many have not had the opportunity or need to be forceful, to be loud, to cry for assistance. That is why I think other women relating experiences may be of use, and why role playing would boost confidence in taking action if needed.
For the record, I had defended myself before, but not verbally, not pre-assault. Two different mindsets and reactions.
Oh shit...... I'll never get to sleep now.MyDearFriend wrote: A fucking airplane could crash through your roof at any moment.
Consider a living trust. People in my circle have died recently and even with the will it basically all went into probateMyDearFriend wrote:Everyone should have a will; don't pretend you are never going to die. A fucking airplane could crash through your roof at any moment.
Just do it. Tell your next-of. And leave it where someone can find it, with a list of all your on-line passwords. Jeez.
Again Knowmad is totally out of the loop.AntiM wrote: We're all going to die on 447 in one mass collision, a spectacular ball of screaming flame.
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knowmad wrote:Again Knowmad is totally out of the loop.AntiM wrote: We're all going to die on 447 in one mass collision, a spectacular ball of screaming flame.
AntiM wrote:I have a will, mostly to keep my stepson's hands off my family heirlooms. If we had more property than we do, we'd put it all in a trust. Still might, as we age. Dad did this, so when he passed I simply assumed control, no probate required. Everything was already in my name. Requires some level of trust, honesty, and responsibility.
We're all going to die on 447 in one mass collision, a spectacular ball of screaming flame.
Now that's the way to end the era of Burning Man. It can't grow forever, and it can't wither. Or else a massive Thelma and Louise lemming style drive off a cliff.AntiM wrote:We're all going to die on 447 in one mass collision, a spectacular ball of screaming flame.
Make a Won't and keep it with you. I won't look down a fire cannon, I won,t rave all night. I won't forget to take water with me when walking naked on the playa at noon and it is 120 degrees. you get the idea. If something happens to you out there it is burn platform or frog pond or we just hide the body for BLM to find. Read the "you may die" clause again.tatonka wrote:should I make a will ?
Savannah wrote:I have a powerfully developed sense of my own mortality, personally . . . I expect to die at any moment.
(This is why no one wants to let me take the wheel.)
