Dad and sis laughed .hugging
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tatonka
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hugging
My Dad is the silent type , he dont drink or smoke , has no vice's . In the past we have never hugged or said I love ya , but last few years Ive said fuck it and I tell him I love him. He says he loves me back , and I gave him a hug awhile back, and he hugged back ( amazed ) My sister said " look there hugging " I said yes but we hate it " Dad and sis laughed .
Dad and sis laughed .Tales told
Of battles won
Of things we've done
Caligula would grin
Of battles won
Of things we've done
Caligula would grin
Re: hugging
tatonka.
Awesome story!!! I can't wait to get *home* to hug My new and old friends, I miss it so much!
MSJ
(sadly 9 years I lost My dad and never heard those words) RIP dad
Awesome story!!! I can't wait to get *home* to hug My new and old friends, I miss it so much!
MSJ
(sadly 9 years I lost My dad and never heard those words) RIP dad
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tatonka
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Re: hugging
Sry for your loss , my mom went early with alzheimersmsj2u wrote:tatonka.
Awesome story!!! I can't wait to get *home* to hug My new and old friends, I miss it so much!
MSJ
(sadly 9 years I lost My dad and never heard those words) RIP dad
I had to do it 1st, he was born in the 30's and him and my grandfather never said the words or hugged.
Tales told
Of battles won
Of things we've done
Caligula would grin
Of battles won
Of things we've done
Caligula would grin
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maryanimal
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Re: hugging
*hughughughughug*
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maryanimal
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Re: hugging
I've learned that when you love someone just tell them. I'm going to try and paraphrase something someone told me recently. Love is having the ability and willingness to let the ones that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without insisting that they satisfy you. And the act of loving in itself, without expectations is a wonderful, beautiful thing. I grew up in a big, loving Sicilian family. We told each other I love you and hugs were never ending! I cannot imagine not giving/getting hugs, or telling someone I love them. And another thing I've learned, is that you don't have to say I love you all the time to that one person in your life that you do love. There's this understanding. It's innate.tatonka wrote:Sry for your loss , my mom went early with alzheimersmsj2u wrote:tatonka.
Awesome story!!! I can't wait to get *home* to hug My new and old friends, I miss it so much!
MSJ
(sadly 9 years I lost My dad and never heard those words) RIP dad
I had to do it 1st, he was born in the 30's and him and my grandfather never said the words or hugged.
So tatonka, be aware that if/when we meet, be ready for a big hug! You too MSJ!
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ygmir
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Re: hugging
good job, and thanks for sharing, tatonka.
It's especially cool, that as a rough, tough guy, you can share this. I think it really helps others with hangups about it, realize it's ok
proud to know ya.
It's especially cool, that as a rough, tough guy, you can share this. I think it really helps others with hangups about it, realize it's ok
proud to know ya.
YGMIR
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Re: hugging
Thank you maryanimal,
How awesome would it be to actually meet!!
hugs
MSJ
How awesome would it be to actually meet!!
hugs
MSJ
The older I get, the less patience I have for stupid.
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Re: hugging
Good work
In our Italian family hugs are the norm. I don't know if that makes them worth less than your hard fought awkward hug, but they still fell good. It's more awkward if you aren't in the mood and try to skip the mandatory greeting or leaving hug.
Cheers
In our Italian family hugs are the norm. I don't know if that makes them worth less than your hard fought awkward hug, but they still fell good. It's more awkward if you aren't in the mood and try to skip the mandatory greeting or leaving hug.
Cheers
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tatonka
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Re: hugging
Will be fun to meet ya all , dont forget the Meet and Greet on Wed.
Tales told
Of battles won
Of things we've done
Caligula would grin
Of battles won
Of things we've done
Caligula would grin