do you think i'm oversexed?

nymphgonebad · Post by **nymphgonebad** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 3:44 pm

really, be honest.

precipitate · Post by **precipitate** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 3:45 pm

Define oversexed.

PJ · Post by PJ » Tue Sep 16, 2003 3:46 pm

Screw the definitions; my answer is "No."

precipitate · Post by **precipitate** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 3:49 pm

Agreed, but I want to know what she means.

Cheesus · Post by **Cheesus** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 3:49 pm

Oversexed: (adjective) a nonsensical word coined by those who erroneously believe that it is possible to have "too much" sex (in whatever of the myriad ways "sex" can be defined).

Put that in your bong and smoke it.

blyslv · Post by **blyslv** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 3:49 pm

Why, are strange men emailing you randomly discussing stuff upon which you have absolutly no idea?

HEY! It could happen...

III · Post by **III** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 3:56 pm

you should have made this a poll.

but i'll second the question: what constitutes oversexed? i suspect there are different standards. my mom would undoubtedly think you are. but trust me on this, you're usually better of ignoring her opinion.

Zane5100 · Post by **Zane5100** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 4:11 pm

princess strych-9 wrote:really, be honest.

I need more data before I form a conclusion...

angelface · Post by **angelface** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 4:17 pm

I'm thinking probably not.. or if you are, so am I..

III · Post by **III** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 4:22 pm

>so am I..

i haven't seen anyone else post #'s, so i'm not even sure how these comparisons are ebing made...

nymphgonebad · Post by **nymphgonebad** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 4:25 pm

alright folks, let's not get our panties in a twist about it. when i say oversexed, i guess i'm thinking girls-gone-wild-out-of-control-throw-myself-at-anything-with-a-pulse type of behavior.

Lydia Love · Post by **Lydia Love** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 4:27 pm

alright folks, let's not get our panties in a twist about it. when i say oversexed, i guess i'm thinking girls-gone-wild-out-of-control-throw-myself-at-anything-with-a-pulse type of behavior.

Oh. Well, then sure.

But not in a *bad* way.

Zane5100 · Post by **Zane5100** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 4:27 pm

princess strych-9 wrote:alright folks, let's not get our panties in a twist about it. when i say oversexed, i guess i'm thinking girls-gone-wild-out-of-control-throw-myself-at-anything-with-a-pulse type of behavior.

<tingle!>

electrolux · Post by **electrolux** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:20 pm

as long as you're not doing too much damage to various body parts, i say go for it.

nymphgonebad · Post by **nymphgonebad** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:24 pm

electrolux wrote:as long as you're not doing too much damage to various body parts, i say go for it.

hey lux - whose body parts are you offering up here?

electrolux · Post by **electrolux** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:27 pm

well i guess i was originally referring to yours, but you can probably have one of my testicles (presumably only need one).

nymphgonebad · Post by **nymphgonebad** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:31 pm

no, no, no! not to keep, to use.

ramen · Post by **ramen** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:37 pm

Fucked any horses lately?

If yes, oversexed.

If no, a qualified not oversexed. Please submit a list of your debaucheries to the committee for review.

nymphgonebad · Post by **nymphgonebad** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:43 pm

no horses, no dogs. havn't taught the cats how to perform cunillingus.

here's the thing that bugs me: my boy and i have an open relationship and a contract that limits me from doing certain things. i'm considering throwing the contract out the window.

your thoughts?

Flux · Post by **Flux** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:45 pm

princess strych-9 wrote:when i say oversexed, i guess i'm thinking girls-gone-wild-out-of-control-throw-myself-at-anything-with-a-pulse type of behavior.

I don't yet know you well enough to say. If so, good for you! If not, well, it's good to have a goal to shoot for.

(By the way, if the answer turns out to be yes, please contact me priavtely for further consultation.

)

precipitate · Post by **precipitate** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:46 pm

I think that if he's not OK with it, he may choose to no longer be your boy.
I think you should discuss it with him and not us, since lots of things are
particular to <i>your</i> relationship and we have no way of judging
what those things are.

Zona · Post by **Zona** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:46 pm

Well.....after the rent is paid...no I don't think so. I did lose a girlfriend over this......she said I was too intense that way. So I think it really depends on your other half. I guess......
Hummmm.....you got this from........Sorry......

nymphgonebad · Post by **nymphgonebad** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:50 pm

we have discussed it. ad nauseum. just wanted to share the nausea with you.

Stormy · Post by **Stormy** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:57 pm

Instead of asking if you think about sex too much, how much do you think of other things? Are you doing well at your job? Do you keep in touch with your platonic friends? Do you have hobbies and get regular exercise?

If you want oversexed, I can privately point you to the journal of someone who writes almost exclusively about her daily sexual escapades. Talk about someone who is as boring as hell. Now you on the otherhand, seem to be quite interesting.

precipitate · Post by **precipitate** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:57 pm

> we have discussed it. ad nauseum

Oh. Well, in that case, you need to figure out a relationship that works for
you. That might mean changing your contract. It might mean getting a
whole new relationship. It might mean compromising on your sex drive.

Long term relationships are work, no matter what your sexual/romantic
agreements are. Sometimes you do stuff you'd rather not. Sometimes
you miss out on doing stuff you want to. Sometimes everything is perfect.
The goal is to find a liveable state that you can both sustain. If he's super
jealous when you have intercourse with another man, but couldn't care
less if you smooch them, then that's a baseline to work from.

If I actually knew the answers to these questions, I could probably get
incredibly rich. And probably wouldn't just the same.

Zona · Post by **Zona** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 8:58 pm

LOL. Been there......Oh ya....My revenge is going to be when she is like 50 and........even I don't wish that on her!

Zona · Post by **Zona** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 9:02 pm

Oh Stormy!!!! How cool! On the other hand I must be way too interesting.....LOL.

antron · Post by **antron** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 9:04 pm

i don't think you're oversexed.

you don't talk about sex nearly as often as my half of the population thinks about sex.

it's weird to live in a society where if you're female you question whether you're some kind of freak because you think about and talk about and engage in something we all like.

nymphgonebad · Post by **nymphgonebad** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 9:06 pm

precipitate wrote:. It might mean compromising on your sex drive.

you hit the nail on the head, cupcake!

. If he's super
jealous when you have intercourse with another man, but couldn't care
less if you smooch them, then that's a baseline to work from.

again, right on the nose. i do realize that i'm going to be making compromises for the rest of my life. if he weren't such an incredible person and if i didn't care about him like i do, it wouldn't even be an issue, would it?

Flux · Post by **Flux** » Tue Sep 16, 2003 9:08 pm

princess strych-9 wrote:my boy and i have an open relationship and a contract that limits me from doing certain things. i'm considering throwing the contract out the window.

Beware of unilaterally cancelling agreements. Dubya may be able to do so with impunity, but it can be very bad for relationships. It would be better to renegotiate your agreement and, if your positions are irreconcilable, break it off amicably than to invite the hurt and upset broken a agreement is likely to cause.

Of course, I'm sure you know that already.

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