Does anyone go to BM WITHOUT the expectation to have sex?

BAS · Post by **BAS** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 8:27 am

There's SEX at Burning Man?!!

(Aw, man! Now I want to go back!)

B.

Uncle Fishbits · Post by **Uncle Fishbits** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 12:47 pm

[quote="BAS"]:shock: There's SEX at Burning Man?!! :shock: (Aw, man! Now I want to go back!)

B.[/quote]

FAR AND AWAY... the finest, wittiest, and cutest response in a forum I have seen in a LOOOONG time.

Cheers to you.

I am going to have a mimosa.

Self aware bourgeois swine.... but I enjoy life.

Cabanasprings · Post by **Cabanasprings** » Sun Oct 01, 2006 1:07 pm

spectabillis wrote:that was pretty much the only warning you will get before i start pulling your posts, ......

Just the thought of you pulling my post makes me really hard!

Apollonaris Zeus · Post by **Apollonaris Zeus** » Mon Oct 09, 2006 1:22 pm

AntiM wrote:Navy?

Follow the, "Don't Ask, Don't Tell! Policy at all times!

AIIZ

sacred573 · Post by **sacred573** » Sun Mar 18, 2007 6:00 am

I'm not going primarily for the sex but I do want sex to be a part of the experience, as it'll be my first.

I'm a 20 year old guy, so I guess it's not all that surprising. I'd really like to meet someone new, (maybe a guy with a nice smile, or nice skin- or a girl with deep eyes and power to pull the tides of my blood) have a companion to smoke with, gaze at the sky.

I'm going all on my lonesome, and will be camping on my own, probably- so it's vital that I meet some new faces.

So... it's not why I'm going, but I'm definitely planning on giving my body some love.

robotland · Post by **robotland** » Sun Mar 18, 2007 6:59 am

sacred573 wrote:I'm not going primarily for the sex but I do want sex to be a part of the experience, as it'll be my first.

First Burning Man, you mean? Or will you be a Double Virgin or "Vee-Squared"? Just remember to bring protection- Goggles and a dust mask. Possibly kneepads.

sacred573 · Post by **sacred573** » Sun Mar 18, 2007 6:04 pm

LOL... and chapstick.

But no... this will be my first Burning Man, not my first piece of ass.

Post by **mdmf007** » Sun Mar 18, 2007 10:42 pm

Id be happy to find a girl to talk dirty to me.

I go to get blitzed, work, have fun, and explore. BM is what you make of it. For me it seems like a waste for me to try and get laid. I can do that the rest of the year, cant drink Pomegranate Mojtos gifted to me by a man in a space suit, in a cozy little bar on the outskirts very often though.

later

Toolmaker · Post by **Toolmaker** » Mon Mar 19, 2007 1:22 am

Be sure to bring handkerchiefs and wear them in the proper pocket!

I know I will!

Bin Noddin · Post by **Bin Noddin** » Mon Mar 19, 2007 3:32 pm

Forget it. I'm no longer expecting sex ANYWHERE!
http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/display.php?id=941

theCryptofishist · Post by **theCryptofishist** » Mon Mar 19, 2007 4:06 pm

I'm still not convinced, although it's been true for me at times. I think women are more sensitive to context (broadly speaking) and (again, broadly speaking) women have sex when they are relaxed and men have it when they want to relax.

My advice to the women out there. Let him seduce you now and then. It is fun and you'll miss it when he's gone.

prem · Post by **prem** » Mon Mar 19, 2007 7:00 pm

For the record I fully intend to partake of the fairer sex during my time at Burning Man.

(now whether they let me or not is another story :lol: )

Lassen Forge · Post by **Lassen Forge** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 2:14 am

No Expectations. Isn't that written somewhere?

bb

Toolmaker · Post by **Toolmaker** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:25 am

Bay Bridge Sue wrote:No Expectations. Isn't that written somewhere?

bb

I expect my hand to do what I demand when I demand it. Everything else is an extra blessing.

Teo del Fuego · Post by **Teo del Fuego** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 2:01 pm

going with the expectation of having sex is the best way to ensure it won't happen..IF you're a single male.

I cant imagine how great it must be to be a young, moderately attractive female at BM....or is the experience tainted by fending off Yahoos?

MrMullen · Post by **MrMullen** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:21 pm

I have been to the Burningman, single, three times and I "hooked up" with two beautiful young ladies (The first time I went, I was too drunk to have sex. Yes, you heard me). I have to admit, I did go with the attitude of, "if I can't get laid here, I can't get laid anywhere" and I have to say that it defiantly hurt my experience at Burningman.

Burningman is about the art and the people. It is not about the drugs, the booze or the sex. Yes, if done in moderation, they help in someway, but if you think Burningman is about anything else but art and people, you will not maximize your good times. It took me three years to figure that out and I know I lost a few days at the event when I could have been having the best time of my life.
When I started to focus on the event then I started having the time of my life. It was no longer about the dick telling me to go out and get laid, but about my mind and spirit showing me that the art and the people are the best thing there.

However, I will admit, that I met a very cool, beautiful young lady who made me feel very good about myself. At the time, I happen to be still recovering from an ex-girlfriend that I missed sorely and wanted to take to Burningman. She just reminded me that I am no longer an overweight person (Lost 70 pounds or so) and that I can find someone again. Also, watching a beautiful woman ride the Gasso Orgasmatron is very cool and some thing I will never forget!

This year, I bought a ticket for my girlfriend and I hope that I can take her and if I don't, I won't even care if I get laid or not. To me, Burningman is about art and the people and nothing else.

lizzizy · Post by **lizzizy** » Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:56 pm

Here Here! I completely agree. I'm pretty sure I am one of the young, moderately attractive females who could get laid at the drop of a hat on the playa, but thats not what Burningman is for! I met quite a few attractive men, slept with none of them, and had a fabulous time. It's good to hear that at least some of them might have valued talking to me and didn't have the expectation of sex :)

Much respect and appreciation goes out to all the wonderful gentlemen who go for the art and the people and don't harass us ladies. There is nothing wrong with friendly flirting, but arriving with the expectation that you're going to get laid really isn't the best way to have fun.

If you meet someone you really click with, then wonderful! But otherwise, go for the art, the experience, and the truly interesting people of all ages and genders you will meet.

Apollonaris Zeus · Post by **Apollonaris Zeus** » Sat Mar 24, 2007 4:04 pm

AntiM wrote:Navy?

Larry=Cabin Boy

Does anyone have a problem with this or is it just me?

AntiM wrote: Of course, my advice back when I was in my 20s would have been entirely different, do what you will (safely) and keep your mouth shut, no need to hurt the ones you love. Sigh, I am a much different person thse days!

Still sticking to that old line. We know you're only 30!

AIIZ

gyre · Post by **gyre** » Sat Mar 24, 2007 4:52 pm

Lizzizy, calling yourself moderately attractive strikes me as extremely funny.
I'm not sure why.
Funny, though.

At least you still feel you can compete with the other 20,000 women out there.

Yep.
Still funny.