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stuart · Post by **stuart** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 4:44 pm

be well dear

I hope you will feel better in the future

samtzu · Post by **samtzu** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 4:49 pm

Ditto... For both of you...

Separation is difficult enough... sharing it with others is excruciating... hang in there both of you. Most of us have been through this shit and survived... It all works out in the end, although we may wind up with limps (and scars)... take heart, guys... you're not the first...

PurpleKoosh · Post by **PurpleKoosh** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 4:53 pm

Kristines wrote:George: I'll say it here and maybe you can understand me; maybe some of your friends can help you hear me. That's my fondest wish. I want you to have wonderful friends. I think it's great you are embracing art projects and Burning Man. All that is true. But it is ALSO true that I am also incredibly insecure with myself and my relationship with you and I feel threatened when you are intimate with other people, especially when I don't feel intimate with you.

So find some wonderful friends of your own. Don't let yourself believe you need to be defined by your relationship(s). I lost someone who means more than life to me because I kept thinking of us as Us, and not just Me and Him.

Yes, it sucks to not feel understood by the person you plan(ned) to spend your life with. But there's another five billion people on this planet - don't rule the rest of us out just because we're not your first choice. Please.

samtzu · Post by **samtzu** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 4:54 pm

That's seven billion, Koosh... but what's a few billion between friends?

PurpleKoosh · Post by **PurpleKoosh** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:05 pm

I never was much good at math....

Sensei · Post by **Sensei** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:12 pm

I like this Kristines... She's got moxie.

helitack · Post by **helitack** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:19 pm

Bump. Who wants a fucking drink?

GuinivereElise · Post by **GuinivereElise** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:20 pm

I do, I do!

sparkletarte · Post by **sparkletarte** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:20 pm

HAHA!!! Will one of your guys play your scrotum drum for me? Pretty please?

Martiansky · Post by **Martiansky** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:22 pm

I'd love a drink Heli! A celebration drink.......
I bought a ticket!! It'll be my first time out there!! OMG!!

How about a bloody mary?

GuinivereElise · Post by **GuinivereElise** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:23 pm

um, M?

bloodys are morning drinks.

have an evening drink. martini perhaps? scotch?

Martiansky · Post by **Martiansky** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:23 pm

And drinks all around!! WOO HOO!!

Martiansky · Post by **Martiansky** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:24 pm

Oh, I usually drink beer..........OK, how about a Leinie's, Creamy dark!

helitack · Post by **helitack** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:26 pm

sparkletarte wrote:HAHA!!! Will one of your guys play your scrotum drum for me? Pretty please?

Where would the fun be in that, you can play the SD if you want.

PurpleKoosh · Post by **PurpleKoosh** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:27 pm

Satin Hammer for me, please....

GuinivereElise · Post by **GuinivereElise** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:31 pm

your wish is my command, purple...

leinies creamy dark for m..

heli? more carrot juice? something stronger??

helitack · Post by **helitack** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:33 pm

I will have some more carrot juice. COuld you save some of that for later too?

Zulegoona · Post by **Zulegoona** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:35 pm

I got a ticket now all I need is a few thousand dollars and time to make the pilgrimage to the Playa.

I'll try a creamy dark too never had one.

It would probably be a good Idea if I paid off 2004 that’s still on the card but that’s the last of my worries.

GuinivereElise · Post by **GuinivereElise** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:37 pm

okay, Z... here's yer beer... good stuff... not like PNW beers, though....

I'm out, boys and girls.. until tomorrow, then... Kisses all around...

I shall sleep, and I shall wake, and upon waking, I shall begin again...

Zulegoona · Post by **Zulegoona** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:40 pm

Thanks Guinivere not to plant a thought but some one will be here if you can't sleep

Martiansky · Post by **Martiansky** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:42 pm

Goodnight GE, thanks for the beer!
Z, how do you like the Creamy Dark? Smooth, huh?

So, I too will be planning the long drive out and back from Minnesota!

robbidobbs · Post by **robbidobbs** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:46 pm

... I'm just going to sit under the neverending blanket and suck my thumb (in lieu of a breast) for a while....

RobbiDobbs stomps the snow off her boots just outside the door. She then spies a bump under a big blanket. Without preamble, and with a wry smirk, she lifts up a corner, and jumps under.

gigglesnort · Post by **gigglesnort** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:47 pm

First snowman is melted in me tummy, kids are tucked away if not asleep yet; time for another, I believe! Perhaps a bit stronger this go around.

Still agonizing on the whole ticket thing. Twould be so much more sensible to just wait a wee bit, perhaps til when I'm getting paychecks again. But I would be in a much different state of mind, I believe, if I just did the deed.

Miss Elise, already gone to bed? {pout}

Martiansky · Post by **Martiansky** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:50 pm

M-Sky peeks under the blanket to ask Sam and Robbi if they want anything to drink.........OH, guess not! Sorry!

sparkletarte · Post by **sparkletarte** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:53 pm

heli, you stretch it, I'll play it. See you in August.

Giggles, just get the ticket- since when was BM about sensible? You can always sell it later if it doesn't seem to be working out for you to go. Heck if I can buy a house next (again with the house!) and spend my poor Canadian dollars (although we've been doing pretty good lately) on two tickets and have to pay a whole extra $20!!!! to have them sent to this country, surely you can.

As Furnaceface says, just buy it!

Please, someone eat the rest of this amazing caramel filled milk chocolate bar. I can't eat another bite. I'll leave it on the bar, I'm off to dinner.

Zulegoona · Post by **Zulegoona** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:55 pm

Martiansky, I was hoping you would show up here, sorry I didn't get back to you on the regional thread.

Martiansky · Post by **Martiansky** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 6:00 pm

No problem Z! I hope it won't costs THOUSANDS to go! I have to pay off my plasteek card too....drag!
Oh, I think I'll have another Creamy Dark! Way better then the MGD my cousin left in the fridge! EEWW!
Want another one, Z?

gigglesnort · Post by **gigglesnort** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 6:04 pm

And a great name, too.

Smooches,
Christine S.

Zulegoona · Post by **Zulegoona** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 6:10 pm

Sure, Thanks

Last year I went by myself and towed a 21 foot travel trailer with an older ford van, so gas ran me a bunch. I boarded 3 dogs at a kennel, while I was gone. and on the return trip I blew my transmission in Grand Island Nebraska. Oh and I had gotten new tires for the van and the trailer before the trip. With the extra stay in Nebraska and having the transition rebuilt and the extra boarding costs that ran nearly a thousand dollars I'm guessing it coast me around $3,500. But that’s just a guess because I really don't want to know.

Rabbi Dali Rick · Post by **Rabbi Dali Rick** » Wed Jan 05, 2005 6:11 pm

Let's all lay hands on Kristine, for a bonified healing session. Me first. Let's all get naked.

closely,
the rebbi

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