lilsherbear wrote:My name is lilsherbear and I am a first time burner. I was to come about two years ago... but, I lost my hubby in a car accident. I am scared to be here by myself, but, am told there are many friendly burners. I worked for one of the largest banks, left after the loss, moved from one side of the US of A to the other. Learning to start all over again in life, love and new friends. I love horseback riding, fishing, swimming, art. I love to write and won a writers contest to Chicago. Was awesome. I have been in a couple of movies, as an extra. Was on the Doctor Phil show... I am looking and hoping a camp will find room for me and yes my fiance. I found a new love. Please if anyone here at BM is looking to add new faces, new meaning to your this years camp please message me - I am hoping to share our first time with those who were new once to but have room in there heart and camp to add two people. Do I sound desperate I think I feel it, its getting so close. Would truly love to share a camp with you.
Thanks,
lilsherbear
Hi Lilsherbear!
Many, many people go alone or with one other person--you don't need a theme camp. You'll have neighbors right away, and can visit theme camps all you want. However, if you and your fiancé lack for camping skills you may want to rehearse setting up and staking down your tent (9 or 10 inch stakes are recommended) and shade structure (with rebar).
Here's a link to the
2011 Theme Camps forum:
http://eplaya.burningman.org/viewforum.php?f=188
There's a thread at the top about how to join a theme camp. Typically they want a nice email or detailed private message about what you have to offer, and why you fit in with their philosophy. They will also generally expect either a fee for the amenities they provide, or for you to work a few hours a day, or both. So pick a theme camp that sounds fun or interesting so that it doesn't feel like work. Or don't, and be free to enjoy the city with your fiancé without responsibility to anyone else.
If you want a camp, seek one now--most theme camps closed their doors in June, but a few others are still filling spaces.