Secondary Virginity
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Secondary Virginity
hi, i'm Flightless (aka Dodo)... I went to Burningman in 2007 with 4 other ignorant virgins and we had a partially fantastic, partially cataclysmic experience. Now that our hands have healed, a few of us are planning to try it again in 2012. I'm tentatively planning to drive from D.C. again, and trying to figure out the still-super-daunting logistics of greywater, etc., and how I can be less of an idiot about food and hydration this time around... Words of encouragement are hereby solicited!
hugs,
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hugs,
Flightless
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welcome Dodo!! (might you be a kid from outerspace?).
Sorry "Flightless"..........had to make a joke.
welcome!!
where you on eplaya back then in 07?
The search feature here in the new board is much improved, and, the threads well arranged, for easier researching.
Jump on in, ask questions, get some good, some snarky, answers.
Sorry "Flightless"..........had to make a joke.
welcome!!
where you on eplaya back then in 07?
The search feature here in the new board is much improved, and, the threads well arranged, for easier researching.
Jump on in, ask questions, get some good, some snarky, answers.
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ygmir wrote: Jump on in, ask questions, get some good, some snarky, answers.
You know what my (Pine)momma always used to say.. Eplaya's like a box of choc-o-lates..
Savannah wrote:It sounds freaky & wrong, so you need to do it.
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full of nuts and fruits, with a few creams and milk solids?junglesmacks wrote:ygmir wrote: Jump on in, ask questions, get some good, some snarky, answers.
You know what my (Pine)momma always used to say.. Eplaya's like a box of choc-o-lates..
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My advise, dont go, 4 years for your hands to heal is way to long and now that your older things take longer to heal.
But if still want go: I take 5 gallon plastic bottles and fill them up closer to the site. when i set up camp i fill my camping shower bag with the water for one and that empty bottle becomes my grey water bottle and just haul it out.
There is alot of grey water and a bunch of food threads on this site check them out,,
But if still want go: I take 5 gallon plastic bottles and fill them up closer to the site. when i set up camp i fill my camping shower bag with the water for one and that empty bottle becomes my grey water bottle and just haul it out.
There is alot of grey water and a bunch of food threads on this site check them out,,
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Oh, totally joking about my hands finally healing (though they really did hurt for a couple weeks after I got home). We did try rinsing in water with a little vinegar, but I will be way more vigilant this time around -- and perhaps even wear work gloves for setup and tear-down!
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Welcome to ePlaya! In addition to the great resources and people on the site, definitely also check into your regional group, there are plenty of DC burners out there. Not only does it help to have like minded people in your local area to share the excitement, they can be extremely helpful in planning out the logistics. I think they also organize a shipping container and/or a freight truck, which might help make it easier for you and your campmates to get everything there and back again.
Cheers!
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Welcome!!!!
I attended in 2008 & 2009, but have taken a hiatus the last couple of years to do family vacations with the kids. But this year is on!
Like most of us here, I also fantasize, dream, obsess about my return and I want to make this year better than ever. Take the advice on this forum seriously and learn from your past experiences and you will be fine.
As a burn virgin I had a hard time keeping in tune with my body due to all the stimuli. (That's a fancy way of saying: "I got fucked up and forgot to really take care of myself") Your second time around it will be easier. It also helps to have an experienced friend to hang with so you can keep an eye on each other.
Pay attention to what your body tells you on the playa, do your best to eat well and at regular intervals, drink water before you get thirsty, and have fun!
I attended in 2008 & 2009, but have taken a hiatus the last couple of years to do family vacations with the kids. But this year is on!
Like most of us here, I also fantasize, dream, obsess about my return and I want to make this year better than ever. Take the advice on this forum seriously and learn from your past experiences and you will be fine.
As a burn virgin I had a hard time keeping in tune with my body due to all the stimuli. (That's a fancy way of saying: "I got fucked up and forgot to really take care of myself") Your second time around it will be easier. It also helps to have an experienced friend to hang with so you can keep an eye on each other.
Pay attention to what your body tells you on the playa, do your best to eat well and at regular intervals, drink water before you get thirsty, and have fun!
"It is all very beautiful and magical here - a quality which cannot be described. You have to live it and breath it., let the sun bake it into you" - Ansel Adams
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Welcome to eplaya.
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Re: Secondary Virginity
I scanned through your blog. Didn't quite figure out about EFAC.
The only reference for Dodo I have ever made is *quits typing*
The only reference for Dodo I have ever made is *quits typing*
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All melted together in one sticky mess.ygmir wrote:full of nuts and fruits, with a few creams and milk solids?junglesmacks wrote:ygmir wrote: Jump on in, ask questions, get some good, some snarky, answers.
You know what my (Pine)momma always used to say.. Eplaya's like a box of choc-o-lates..
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Man, no wonder they always win....." Lonesomebri
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Man, no wonder they always win....." Lonesomebri
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Sort of like a bunch of small animals that have just completed a caucas race...
The Lady with a Lamprey
"The powerful are exploiting people, art and ideas, and this leads to us plebes debating how to best ration ice.
Man, no wonder they always win....." Lonesomebri
"The powerful are exploiting people, art and ideas, and this leads to us plebes debating how to best ration ice.
Man, no wonder they always win....." Lonesomebri
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channeling Ted Kennedy are you?theCryptofishist wrote:Sort of like a bunch of small animals that have just completed a caucas race...
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No, his distant English, Cambridge Don cousin, Dodgeson.ygmir wrote:channeling Ted Kennedy are you?theCryptofishist wrote:Sort of like a bunch of small animals that have just completed a caucas race...
The Lady with a Lamprey
"The powerful are exploiting people, art and ideas, and this leads to us plebes debating how to best ration ice.
Man, no wonder they always win....." Lonesomebri
"The powerful are exploiting people, art and ideas, and this leads to us plebes debating how to best ration ice.
Man, no wonder they always win....." Lonesomebri
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don't forget the cousin QuixotetheCryptofishist wrote:No, his distant English, Cambridge Don cousin, Dodgeson.ygmir wrote:channeling Ted Kennedy are you?theCryptofishist wrote:Sort of like a bunch of small animals that have just completed a caucas race...
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Re: Secondary Virginity
Hi Flightless! Like your nickname.
Here's the Burning Man website's grey water disposal page:
http://www.burningman.com/environment/r ... water.html
The pond recipe they have in there works for a small number of people (2 to 4) if they're showering in maybe 2 gallons each, every other day. It helps to have a broom to spread the grey water on the plastic. There's more info here on ePlaya and on google, naturally. Some folks have very complicated systems and/or collect & haul all of their grey water out instead of evaporating it.
I protect my hands out there by packing the work gloves right next to the sledgehammer and breaking out the gloves for all work (even if it's just "for a second", because the second always turns into an hour), using baby wipes and lemon juice to clean the extremities at least once daily, lotioning up frequently (1-2 travel size for the knapsack; another bottle for the tent) & packing 2 little bottles of liquid bandage for the hangnails . . . one for the mini first aid in the Knapsack of Roaming, & one for the stationary first aid kit.
It's also handy to have nail clippers and an emery board, because--as you may have found--your nails will find creative ways to break.
Here's the Burning Man website's grey water disposal page:
http://www.burningman.com/environment/r ... water.html
The pond recipe they have in there works for a small number of people (2 to 4) if they're showering in maybe 2 gallons each, every other day. It helps to have a broom to spread the grey water on the plastic. There's more info here on ePlaya and on google, naturally. Some folks have very complicated systems and/or collect & haul all of their grey water out instead of evaporating it.
I protect my hands out there by packing the work gloves right next to the sledgehammer and breaking out the gloves for all work (even if it's just "for a second", because the second always turns into an hour), using baby wipes and lemon juice to clean the extremities at least once daily, lotioning up frequently (1-2 travel size for the knapsack; another bottle for the tent) & packing 2 little bottles of liquid bandage for the hangnails . . . one for the mini first aid in the Knapsack of Roaming, & one for the stationary first aid kit.
It's also handy to have nail clippers and an emery board, because--as you may have found--your nails will find creative ways to break.
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Savannah - thanks, that is great advice.
wh..sh - it's an Arts Collective of one, so far. I decided not to wait for everyone else to get it together.
wh..sh - it's an Arts Collective of one, so far. I decided not to wait for everyone else to get it together.
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don't wait around hoping someone else will create the things you want.
don't wait around hoping someone else will create the things you want.
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Hey Flightless!
Welcome to eplaya!
Does your user name have anything to do with why you choose to drive from DC?
As I'm sure you are aware, make sure you get in line registered for the lottery in January.
May I ask what the cataclysmic event was for your camp in 2007?
Emery board? How old are you really?

Welcome to eplaya!
Does your user name have anything to do with why you choose to drive from DC?
As I'm sure you are aware, make sure you get in line registered for the lottery in January.
May I ask what the cataclysmic event was for your camp in 2007?
Ha ha,Savannah wrote:It's also handy to have nail clippers and an emery board, because--as you may have found--your nails will find creative ways to break.
Emery board? How old are you really?
Why don't ya stick your head in that hole and find out? ~piehole
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Old enough not to let you play with a nail file, puppy!illy dilly wrote: Ha ha,
Emery board? How old are you really?
Emery boards also come in, like . . . a pack of 12. You can gift them.
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Hey there, welcome to eplaya!
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no, not afraid of planes; Flightless is short for Dodo 
One of our tiny cadre in 2007 was not looking where she was bicycling and severely injured her knee. I had to drive to Reno to meet her at the hospital (and the poor ambulance driver had to get out of BRC in a dust storm) and we missed a big chunk of the festival. She ended up having to fly home b/c of the knee, and I drove her car back solo.
One of our tiny cadre in 2007 was not looking where she was bicycling and severely injured her knee. I had to drive to Reno to meet her at the hospital (and the poor ambulance driver had to get out of BRC in a dust storm) and we missed a big chunk of the festival. She ended up having to fly home b/c of the knee, and I drove her car back solo.
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Damn, I'm sorry to hear that! I hope she heeled up ok.flightless wrote:no, not afraid of planes; Flightless is short for Dodo
One of our tiny cadre in 2007 was not looking where she was bicycling and severely injured her knee. I had to drive to Reno to meet her at the hospital (and the poor ambulance driver had to get out of BRC in a dust storm) and we missed a big chunk of the festival. She ended up having to fly home b/c of the knee, and I drove her car back solo.
Must have been one rough drive! How long of a drive would that be?
Good point, who knows what sorta damage I could do with a nail file. End up ruining all the pretty painted nails of the sparkle ponies, it would be disastrous.Savannah wrote:Old enough not to let you play with a nail file, puppy!
Emery boards also come in, like . . . a pack of 12. You can gift them.
But the next time I'm behind bars, I'll remember not to call you for a *get out of jail* cake.
Why don't ya stick your head in that hole and find out? ~piehole
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I'm good for a tart with an attorney in it.illy dilly wrote:Good point, who knows what sorta damage I could do with a nail file. End up ruining all the pretty painted nails of the sparkle ponies, it would be disastrous.
But the next time I'm behind bars, I'll remember not to call you for a *get out of jail* cake.
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I'm working on an attorney who is a tart, but Simon's got first dibs.
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Man, no wonder they always win....." Lonesomebri
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Man, no wonder they always win....." Lonesomebri
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I knew you had my back!Savannah wrote:I'm good for a tart with an attorney in it.illy dilly wrote:Good point, who knows what sorta damage I could do with a nail file. End up ruining all the pretty painted nails of the sparkle ponies, it would be disastrous.
But the next time I'm behind bars, I'll remember not to call you for a *get out of jail* cake.
And that would probably be more useful than an emery board anyway. Shoot, you can't even make a shiv out of an emery board.
For some reason when you said a tart with an attorney in it, I instantly thought of some guy in a suite, wearing a "queen of hearts" costume over the suite.

Why don't ya stick your head in that hole and find out? ~piehole
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MY EEEEEEEEEEEEEYES THEY BLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEED!!!!! :::D

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O cheese'n Rice, thats fucken ugly!!!HiBbY wrote:MY EEEEEEEEEEEEEYES THEY BLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEED!!!!! :::D
welcom to da playa ma fran
Why don't ya stick your head in that hole and find out? ~piehole
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Say what you will, but it reminds me of the date I got set up with from the Costco Soulmate Trading Outlet in, oh I don't know, 2006 I believe. Didn't work out. She was a Sagittarius.
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Don't lie Doc.Dr. Pyro wrote:Say what you will, but it reminds me of the date I got set up with from the Costco Soulmate Trading Outlet in, oh I don't know, 2006 I believe. Didn't work out. She was a Sagittarius.
It had nothing to do with her sign, and everything to do with her teeth.
Some of the best folks you know are Sagittarius
cough, illy dilly, cough
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